- How many days a month do you typically meet?
- At what monthly allowance would you consider someone exclusive?
Based on my experience, the most common amounts are ¥50,000, ¥100,000, and ¥300,000, in that order.
Of course, I assume most men are seeing multiple women over the course of a month.
My impression is that those offering ¥50,000 or more are really into papa-katsu, but mainly want to casually see different women once a month. That seems to be the most common type.
Those offering ¥100,000 or more are also really into it. In my experience, men who give around ¥200,000 or more a month are very committed, but they also seem to meet the most different women—probably at least once every three days.
Including multiple papas, I’d like to know what people’s monthly budget or allowance target is, as well as their monthly budget or allowance target per person.
There may be women who receive ¥1 million or more a month from one person, but that seems completely unrealistic to me. I feel bad saying this to my papas, but I’m currently supported by allowances from several of them.
Are there women who are supported by just one person? I’m sure there are, but that would also make me anxious about when he might suddenly cut me off.
Leaving aside the usual “You’re the only one” talk men hear...
Honestly, as long as women have the time and keep getting invited, I think they’ll continue meeting people even if they’re already receiving a sufficient allowance—unless the papa gives them a card or buys them whatever they want beyond the usual allowance.
I basically never turn down invitations from multiple papas, so ever since I started, almost every day has been an active day.
I feel bad toward my papas, but if I narrowed it down to one or two, my income would decrease, so I can’t narrow it down.
There’s no guarantee how long any one relationship will last, so I feel like I have to accept what I can while I can.
I know this probably isn’t the ideal way to do papa-katsu, but it’s naturally ended up this way...
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> What’s a realistic total allowance to receive per month?
That depends on what you consider “realistic,” but I’ve seen women say they made ¥2 million this month and were thrilled.
Of course, they apparently had more than one papa (male supporter), but if you figure that making about half of that might be achievable, then—
I’d say ¥1 million a month is a reasonable benchmark.
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That’s just your opinion, right?
The evidence is pretty thin.
From what I’ve heard from the monthly partners I’ve gotten close to:
- One generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter), two pay-per-meeting papas, and a husband
- A boyfriend, a casual partner, and several papas
- Three to five pay-per-meeting papas, with plans to start again if that number drops
- One papa (she’s already left the club and only uses Fuu now)
These are all different women.
Fuu’s monthly partners have regular day jobs. It seems like they’re seeing someone about once a week or so. Their allowance is roughly three to five times the number of meetings mentioned above.
I do think it’s a reality that allowances have been deflating lately and prices are coming down. Apps and street-based dating have also become more common, so I think activity through clubs is a higher-quality option.
Everyone’s different, so I think people should do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in whatever way suits them. If you want to earn a lot in allowances, you’ll probably need to date multiple people.
Personally, I feel that a lighter form of papa-katsu—having a regular day job, seeing two or three pay-per-meeting papas for a little extra comfort, and choosing papas who don’t feel burdensome—would be less emotionally draining, more sustainable, and happier in the long run.
Fuu is also aiming for enjoyable papa-katsu, so I wonder if it can maintain long-term relationships with women who aren’t aggressively chasing money and aren’t struggling financially.
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The number of papas will keep declining, so if you can keep as many papas as possible, you might as well do so. Just be careful about STIs.
I have a clear ranking among my monthly arrangements, and the girls at the top of the list have a papa who only sees them. I give them enough to make that worthwhile.
Meanwhile, the girls lower on the list have multiple papas.
Sorry for the boring answer, but that’s the reality, isn’t it?
To give you a little insight into the men’s side, I’d say over 80% of papas have a fixed rate for intimacy—something like “an allowance of 60,000 yen for everyone.” Few papas, like me, vary the amount depending on the woman.
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In terms of the number of papas, I think the most financially and emotionally sustainable setup is to keep around three moderately generous, reliable papas, seeing each of them once or twice a month.
Ideally, I’d like a woman who can juggle around three papas while making each one feel like, “You’re the only one.”
The allowance really depends on the woman’s status. There probably aren’t many women who could maintain three monthly arrangements at 300,000 yen each.
On a pay-per-meeting basis, once you get to 100,000 yen or more, I don’t think it can continue unless there’s something truly special about her.
That said, if she can get him emotionally hooked—but sadly, there aren’t many women who can do that.
Lately, most of my arrangements have been with women where we simply feel comfortable together while meeting for 60,000, 70,000, or 80,000 yen per time.
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