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Jan 29, 2026 12:32
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https://lab.universe-club.jp/help/view/18128
On the other hand, I can understand someone saying, “I can’t satisfy you because I finish quickly, so I’ll give you a little extra allowance,” or, “I’m confident I can satisfy you because I’m slow to finish, so I’d like to pay a little less.” Still, I found it interesting that people can see things so differently. I suppose it comes down to what each person values, which really highlights the diversity of perspectives.
Personally, I’d be happy to date someone who takes a little longer. Would putting something like that in my profile make people uncomfortable?
I registered about a month ago and, thankfully, have received two offers. However, I’m starting to feel that I may not receive many more. Since I have nothing to lose, I’m considering changing my profile as an experiment—but I’m also worried that it might narrow the already limited pool of offers even further.
I’d really appreciate any advice.
7 answers
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I finally managed to log in.
I asked Maezawa-san to reset my password. They’re always so thorough and attentive.
If he’s a premature ejaculator, at least you spend less time with a gross, smelly old geezer, right? For someone like me who takes a long time, or an uncle who goes for a second round, the allowance should be double, shouldn’t it?
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
The questioner is probably a woman in her 40s or so—at an age of sexual maturity, right? As much as I support diversity, I think most men would be put off if she wrote something like that. Though what do I know?
**Update**
It’s really interesting when a respondent’s brief profile appears first and you read it alongside their answer. I’ve actually seen Wandering Sixty-Something’s finger technique up close, so I thought, “Well, that figures.” Since we’re at it, I’d love for Mr. Maezawa to write something too—not the usual bland stuff, but something edgy enough to be interesting without damaging his relationships with people at work.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I like adult relationships (intimate), and I like men who are generous (well-paying).
Or you could keep your profile vague. Just don’t write something as direct as “I like men who take a long time to finish.” Leave a little to the imagination.
A while ago, I saw a woman whose profile said, “I like being taken from behind in a dimly lit room,” and it nearly knocked me over.
I was about to make an offer right away, but she quit almost immediately.
I wonder if she was flooded with offers? lol
Women who enjoy sex and are comfortable with—or even prefer—older men can have fun with this activity while earning an allowance, so I think it’s a perfect match for them.
Try letting a little of that erotic appeal come through in your profile and photos. Hopefully, the offers will start coming in.
I’m rooting for you.
50半ばのオッサン
Male
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🏅 特に無し
ライトにやっています お互いのフィーリング重視です
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Go ahead and write it. You might get offers from some seriously devoted fans. If possible, it might be better to have a staff member post it in the comments, something like: “She apparently prefers this, but says she’s too embarrassed to write it herself, so I’m posting it on her behalf.” What do you think?
迷わない70代
Male
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パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中(笑)
Age: 70 or older
👨 Male
Former Universe member
I agree with updating your profile.
For someone like me who’s not just somewhat slow to finish, but may not climax at all—and is perfectly fine with that—this is a very welcome point to highlight. Combined with my modest skills, it seems to help some partners reach climax several times, so it really works for the right people(笑)
But are you dissatisfied with getting two offers in one month?
Maybe neither you nor your papa (a male supporter) has found a relationship that makes you want to continue.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Being with a woman whose “battle type” matches mine is the best.
I can control when I climax, so I take my time with girls who want it to last, and finish relatively quickly with those who prefer a shorter session.
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
If it’s on a Universe Club profile, anything written by the club itself is probably considered reliable and given significant weight when men make offers.
Of course, if a woman writes something interesting in her own appeal section, that can also work in her favor.
You could try writing that you prefer things to take a little longer—you might attract an interesting papa (a male supporter).
It’s worth experimenting through trial and error.
“Because I finish too quickly, I’d like to pay less” is basically the idea of a time-based charge—so many yen for 10 minutes.
“Because I take a long time, I’d like to pay less” is more like saying, “I’m providing value beyond the money, so I deserve a discount.”