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Jan 27, 2026 16:47
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I’ve been seeing my regular papa (a male supporter) about twice a month for around nine months, and he invited me on a hot-springs and golf trip.
From a man’s perspective, do you actually want to travel with your papa-katsu partner? We’ve never spent that many hours together, so I’m worried we might run out of things to talk about. I’m always putting on an act around him, too…
I’m planning to receive my allowance as usual.
Is there anything I should be careful about, or anything you’d be happy for me to do during the trip? I’d appreciate any advice.
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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I sometimes fantasize that it might be fun.
The first time was hell.
Fuu was still inexperienced with papa-katsu and wasn’t very good at judging people. There was hardly any conversation, and it was honestly tough.
With the next woman, though, we went out several times, and it was heaven. In the end, it really depends on the person—compatibility, familiarity, and trust, I guess.
Before traveling together, we stayed overnight a few times to make sure we knew what to expect, haha. Once I knew how things worked, we went on a trip. I didn’t mind even when there was nothing to talk about.
If you trust someone that much and are comfortable around each other, then I think traveling together can be fun.
What would make me happy? Fuu is basically a libido monster, so being able to really indulge without worrying about the time.
Well, the women who stay overnight with Fuu are naturally pretty erotic, so they’re willing to go along with it—or they might even take the initiative themselves.
50半ばのオッサン
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🏅 特に無し
ライトにやっています お互いのフィーリング重視です
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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You’ve already met 18 times, and you can still keep up the act? Then a trip should be a piece of cake, right? Or maybe your papa (a male supporter) saw through you ages ago, haha. If he’s still inviting you despite that, why not just be yourself?
By the way, if he’s asking you on a trip after seeing you that many times, he must be absolutely crazy about you. Just keep telling him, “I like you too,” and he’ll be over the moon.
🏅 パパ活お助け相談員
心配事や疑問について、できる限り寄り添いながら回答していきますので、みなさん…お手柔らかにお願いします😊
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If you’ve decided to go, then enjoy yourself!
Even if you put on an act, your true self will eventually show.
I love traveling and enjoy trips with several women. Traveling with a younger woman is something special.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
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I hardly ever travel.
Women get tired, and I find it mentally exhausting too. Plus, I can’t get any work done, which leaves me frustrated.
It’s fine if the person asking the question agrees to go on a trip for her usual allowance, but I’d be worried that he might invite her again.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
My trips are a little unusual, so this may not be very helpful, but last summer I took a 19-year-old to Shiretoko in Hokkaido. I had her wear nothing but a fox-ear headband and tail, and we played Arctic fox and took photos. I kept tally marks of the number of times we had sex on her thigh, and I think it came to about 27 times. I ejaculated three times. We rented a car and went there for one night and two days solely to play Arctic fox, but having sex while looking out over Hokkaido’s wilderness felt incredible.
My current 21-year-old partner for unprotected sex is graduating from school in March, so we’re going somewhere again. She said she didn’t have any plans for a graduation trip, so I asked, “Would you like me to take you somewhere?” She looked happy and said, “Are you sure?” She apparently wants to visit an ordinary tourist destination in Japan rather than go abroad. She was raised by a single mother and has never really gone on family trips, so I guess she’s always admired that kind of thing. She said she wants to be able to join conversations as a working adult by saying, “I’ve been there.” She’s a modest, sweet girl. Now, where should we go, and what kind of theme should we have?
The person asking the question doesn’t need to talk at all; she just needs to keep fulfilling her papa’s requests. When he has no requests, she can look at her phone or sleep—whatever she likes. Put simply, she’s an actress being taken to different locations. She only needs to do what’s expected of her when the time comes. Just make sure you can switch between on and off.
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Universe member
Keep up the sweet, innocent act!
If you do that long enough, the version of you wearing that mask will gradually become the real you. So stick with it all the way through.
Your papa actually likes seeing you keep up that innocent act, haha.
Let’s keep doing our best!
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
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According to a beautiful woman who joined a dating club, she apparently spent most of the trip pretending to sleep whenever they weren’t eating. He just said, “You sure sleep a lot,” so there didn’t seem to be any problem.
If you run out of things to talk about, you could pretend to sleep or watch movies, anime, or videos on your phone—just go with whatever seems appropriate for the man you’re with.
I don’t particularly ask to go on trips myself, but women often say they’d like to go, so sometimes they come along on my business trips, or we visit theme parks, entertainment districts, and various other places.
I often go on half-day or full-day dates as well, so it’s basically the same: we usually keep moving from place to place at the woman’s pace.
> If there’s anything you’d be happy for her to do during a trip
When you’re traveling, it’s easier to become much more physically close since you don’t have to worry as much about people watching.
It’s also nice when she plans things she wants to do and happily rushes from one place to the next.
横断歩道
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I often take day trips, but I don’t go on overnight trips.
It’s really no different from going with a friend. If things get awkward or we run out of conversation, we watch YouTube together.