Please help me. My overseas trip with my papa is nothing like I imagined, and I’m thinking about returning home alone.
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This papa lives overseas, about a 12-hour flight away, and this was supposed to be my first time meeting him abroad.
I was already put off when I found out my seat was in economy. Every papa who has taken me overseas before has always booked business class.
But the worst part is that instead of staying at a hotel, I’m basically being confined to his home. He expects sex four or five times a day or more. He even says things like, “Haha, poor you, having to stay at my place the whole time.” I’m reaching my limit, both mentally and physically.
His home is a cramped two-bedroom apartment, and the bathroom and toilet aren’t exactly clean. The whole place is dirty.
I just want to get out of here.
I don’t have the courage to tell him I want to stay at a hotel.
The men who have taken me overseas before always booked business class and arranged a hotel for me.
Is this man abnormal? Is he taking me lightly?
Sorry, but more than just the Japanese, the whole post doesn’t seem to make sense. Are you okay?
If you’re really under so much mental pressure that you ended up writing something like this, that’s seriously concerning. Escape and make your way back home on your own. Don’t you have a credit card or something?
Wait, are you perhaps not Japanese? … “Let’s escape as soon as possible.”
My English is weird too, I guess…
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If you’re feeling that mentally cornered, I think you should first use your phone to book a flight home—go with a budget ticket if you can find one; otherwise, book a regular fare—and get out of there and return home.
Your mental well-being matters too. If you feel you can’t handle it anymore, I think it’s best to leave without saying anything.
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It may be disappointing as papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but as an overseas migrant sex worker, I’d say you’re being treated pretty well. They haven’t drugged you or held you captive, right?
What exactly do you want people to do when you say, “Please help me”? Pay for your business-class flight home, perhaps? Why not try crowdfunding?
You got lucky with this overseas papa-katsu situation, but marrying some strange man without thinking it through can lead to irreversible regret. Take this as a lesson to keep yourself in check.
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A decent person wouldn’t keep someone confined, so this is definitely abnormal.
This is only speculation, but I suspect he’s been licking your entire body.
Please get away as soon as possible.
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Well, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is an individual game, so if you didn’t confirm everything beforehand, that’s on you.
If you want to get away, I think you’ll have to pay your own way out.
If you’re going to travel with someone, they really need to be a person you can trust.
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It might be a good idea to pretend you have really bad stomach pain and go back home. The plan is to act like you’re doubled over and unable to move. And if he tries to penetrate you, say, “It hurts, it hurts,” and get away.
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