I’m the one who asked earlier about the appeal of women in their 30s and what they’re looking for.

Your comments from women, papa-katsu interviews, and videos all really bring out your personality. In both a good and bad way, you seem like someone who won’t disappoint people when they meet you in person. As others have already pointed out, it’s hard to say that your content will resonate with a wide audience. But you don’t seem like someone who can put on an act or pretend to be tougher than you are—you come across as very genuine. You’d be better off valuing the connections you make with the men who reach out to you. I don’t think you can easily change your own character, but you’re free to build individual relationships in different ways. Through those relationships, I think new sides of yourself may emerge as well. If I had to point out one thing, perhaps you could also include questions about relationships between men and women that you haven’t answered in your papa-katsu interviews.

I’m sorry to weigh in while everyone else is offering such wonderful advice, but if you look at the fact that you already have three offers at B1 in a positive light, I think switching to Type C would bring you even more offers. I’m afraid that’s the only immediate option I can think of. I hope this helps.

This is Fullerenes! This kind of thing looks fun, so I’m posting for the first time in ages. The first thing I thought was: “So this gets three offers...” Given the content, I think that’s a pretty impressive result. Even if you were B2, I feel like you’d probably get around three offers. You can tell the staff worked really hard on writing your comments, too. Both “Hobbies, talents, and selling points” and “Comments,” which you wrote yourself, have quite an edge to them and really spark interest. There’s no doubt that’s the reason you’ve received three offers at this stage. That said, the photos aren’t very good. It’s not that the photos themselves are bad; it’s more that they don’t match your personality at all. With your mouth closed, you come across as strong-willed and not easily nervous. I think an expression with your mouth slightly open, like at the beginning of the second video or around the 12-second mark, would suit you better. A slightly upward gaze might make it even better. I can’t speak for everyone else, but my process is: “I like the thumbnail photo and favorite the profile” → “When I have time, I consider it based on the video.” So if the impression you give in the photos differs from the video, it may not lead to an offer. One or the other will make people lose interest. Also, the first private photo is really cute, but how old is it? For example, if you were active on PATOLO using that photo and then the person met the current you, I don’t think it would go very well. You should think about managing the other person’s expectations. It’s better to show yourself as you are now. In that sense, the third photo might be better. Considering how long it’s been since you registered, I don’t think you’ve built stable relationships with the three people who made offers yet. Your goal doesn’t seem all that ambitious, so for now, focus on those three. If things go well, I think you can achieve your goal with just them. The fact that you’re already concerned about the number of offers probably means you’re worried things might not work out with those three and want to secure more options, right? But if that’s your mindset, I have a feeling things may not go well with those three either. Wouldn’t it be better to start worrying about the number of offers after you have a clearer sense of how things are progressing with those three? By then, you may have developed better judgment and be able to operate as B2. If that happens, I feel like the number of offers could increase quite a bit. Personally, I found your profile interesting, but since you’re B1, I probably wouldn’t even favorite it. Hope this helps.

Just my two cents. I don’t think you should focus too much on the number of offers you receive. When you get too many offers, you may start wavering, just like men do. If one of those three men is someone like me—who has made offers but kept getting turned down—I think you should consider seeing him. It may be easier to build a relationship with him, and he might treat you better. In dating-club relationships, continuing to see someone matters more than the number of offers. In the long run, that may lead to more support overall.

She seemed pretty smart—actually, she was smart. I think her H-cup is one of her defining features, so I don’t think she needs to lose weight. I have a group of four male friends, and two of them—including me—prefer curvier women. Once she gets used to it, I think she’d receive plenty of offers if she changed to B2 or C. P.S. At 162 cm, 58 kg is a healthy weight, so I think that’s perfectly fine. If she loses weight, the cup size that matters most will definitely shrink too. If she lived nearby, she’d be exactly the type I’d want to make an offer to.

I’m impressed by the strength of Universe Club. Getting three offers as a B1 is honestly a great result. I also think your club profile comments (the staff comments) are good. My guess is that you received offers from papas who like intelligent women—women who seem well-educated and share common interests with you. If you want more offers, though, B1 may be a tough category. You could consider moving to C, adding a comment about an adult relationship (intimate), losing weight, or, if that’s not possible, making the most of your H-cup figure. Honestly, three offers is an excellent number. Your H-cup is probably working in your favor and may be one of your strong points. Take good care of those three connections. Since there’s also a favorites feature, make sure to value any future offers as well.

According to Mac, the issue was your photos, so—unusually for me—I also watched your video. First of all, getting three offers based on your profile is a very good result. The staff may have put in a lot of effort, but it also made me realize that there are actually men who find that particular quality appealing. I’m sorry to say this, but you’re someone I would never make an offer to. The reasons are that the quality mentioned above has no appeal to me whatsoever, you seem far too flustered in the video for your age, and your limited work experience comes through not only in the video but also in your comments. There are certainly men who like women who seem young and immature, but those men probably won’t be very interested in women in their mid-thirties. Conversely, men who prefer women in their mid-thirties may find you lacking. Also, as Mac pointed out, I think the gap between your stated weight and your photos is simply too large. Since limited work experience isn’t something that can be easily fixed, I think you should focus less on increasing the number of offers and more on making the most of the three you already have. Incidentally, I didn’t answer your previous question because, for someone in her thirties, I felt the question itself was far too immature.

I honestly think the photos are overwhelmingly the main problem. Men have all kinds of preferences, so they might appeal to a niche audience, but I don’t think they’ll resonate with the majority. When you watch the video, there are moments where you can catch glimpses of some attractive shots, so if I were editing the profile, I’d take stills from the video. Staff at Universal, why not just do that? Unless you’re a professional, it’s hard for an amateur to take really good still photos. Also, putting that aside, isn’t the gap between her listed height and weight and her photos just too large? I can understand if those were private photos from back then. But you’ve gained quite a bit of weight since then, haven’t you? You should lose weight first. Absolutely. Once you hit your 30s, it gets harder to lose the weight you’ve gained. Next, the clothes. Are those your own clothes? The same goes for the hairstyle, but the most painful thing about being in your 30s is clinging to your 20s. The skirt is way too short. This is common among women who used to be reasonably attractive: they’re oblivious to the need to change from the time when they were at their peak. They have no sense of urgency. Think of the current female finance minister. That’s exactly what I mean. Her background and goals look impressive at first glance, and I understand why some men would be interested in them. But I also sense something similar to the story in Kei Ikeda’s book, “I Wish I Hadn’t Entered [〇〇] University,” about the man who became a security guard while aspiring to be a manga artist. I’m not saying her current way of life is wrong, but because she grew up without ever knowing failure, I can’t help thinking, “Is she going to be okay?” I know she is okay in one sense, but I still can’t shake that feeling of “something doesn’t quite add up”—about as much as hearing a story about someone who spent ten hours a day copying masterpieces in pursuit of becoming a manga artist, only to end up as a security guard. At the very least, she should lose weight with a proper sense of urgency. She should also observe ordinary women in their 30s around town and learn how much effort women without any particular advantages put into disguising their age. There’s also a strategy of deliberately emphasizing your “weaknesses” or your “age”—making your face and figure look young compared with your clothes and actual age. Update: Of the three men, two of them seem to be the type who are satisfied with anything as long as she has a large chest. The remaining one is probably a highly educated woman fetishist. He himself is probably just as highly educated, or even more so, but his particular preference is either wanting to be crushed by facesitting or being into scat. That’s just my hunch, though. Seattle: Oh, I do think she’d be a perfect fit for a niche audience. She’s already received three offers. But she definitely isn’t appealing to the majority. If you search YouTube for “The Reality of the Bottom Tier at Todai,” you’ll find the security guard story mentioned above. I’m not saying the questioner is at the bottom, but the idea of trying to get by through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) once you’re in your 30s is just painful. Get your feet a little more firmly on the ground, earn an honest living, and then pursue your dreams or whatever you want to study. I sense a weakness in her ability to get by in life—isn’t that the “immaturity” Kazu-san was talking about? I’d have a better impression if she simply said, “I can’t work because I’m sick,” or even just, “I like sex.” That would make more sense.

Having seven favorites (though that number has gone up a little now) and three offers is already pretty impressive. When I asked the staff member who interviewed you, they said, “She worked hard.” Anyway, looking at your profile, I think the main issue may be that your dating type is B1. Types A and B1 tend to receive fewer offers. With these types, you generally won’t get many offers unless you’re exceptionally beautiful—around the level of a beauty pageant winner. If you were B2, I think you might receive a few more offers. In that case, though, your photos would probably need to have a somewhat sexier feel. And to achieve that look, you’d likely need to wear clothes in that style as well. That said, men generally don’t have a very positive impression when a dating type is changed (it will show that you changed it). So if you do change it, you should do so with the mindset that you won’t change it again in the future. Also, I think around three offers is pretty standard. Women who receive more than ten are probably already popular wherever they go. I don’t think there’s anything particularly wrong with your profile text, so the photos are probably the main factor. However, with B1, you can’t really emphasize your physical appeal too much, which makes things difficult. With B2, it might be a different story if you used photos that conveyed your physical appeal more clearly. Unfortunately, your next photo shoot won’t be until six months from now...