I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for the money, but being intimate with older men is far more unpleasant than I imagined. To cleanse my palate, I end up using women’s escort services and having sex with all kinds of handsome men.
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Sometimes I hate going to sleep while the memory of a disgusting older man is still fresh, so I’ll go straight to one of those services after meeting him. I end up spending the money I earned on it immediately.
Maybe papa-katsu just isn’t for me.
But then, how am I supposed to make money? I’m a nurse, so honestly, it’s tough to rely on that alone. I should have become a doctor. Is there any good-paying work out there?
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We “old guys” are basically sewer rats—we’ll complain that a PJ’s private parts smell even though our own breath stinks, then end things after just one meeting.
If you can’t put up with that, why not work at a men’s esthetic salon?
Once you become a popular therapist, you can make around ¥2 million a month doing “clean” services.
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How to make money.
For starters, if you simply did your job properly as a nurse, wouldn’t you earn more than the average Japanese income?
Spending money earned through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) at female-oriented adult services, or spending money earned at a hostess club on a host—it's exactly the same pattern.
If you hadn’t earned money through papa-katsu, you wouldn’t have been able to get together with handsome guys, so maybe it worked out for you.
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You’re in your 20s, right?
Are creepy old guys really the only papas (male supporters) you can get?
Is your appearance really that bad?
If your looks leave you unable to choose your papa, then unfortunately, this probably isn’t for you.
You should choose your papas more carefully. I could understand that kind of comment if this were about working at a hostess club, but—
I’ve seen other papas at lounge events a few times, and they all made an effort to look clean and presentable. I never saw any creepy old guys.
So either your standards are extremely high, or your looks are bad enough that you have no choice but to deal with creepy old guys.
You shouldn’t do this if it’s going to make you feel miserable. Quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) before it starts affecting your mental health.
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Something feels off. This sounds made up.
Could the person asking this actually be a man—and an older one at that?
“Palate cleanser” sounds like something from old-man texting style. Women in their 20s don’t use that phrase, and maybe they don’t even know what it means.
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Honestly, I don’t think this is right for you. You’re lumping all older men together and calling them disgusting.
You may receive offers in the future from men who are attractive or exceptionally well-groomed, but they’re still older men, regardless.
You’re also spending a lot of time on this, not to mention earning money only to blow it on paid dating or other services.
There are plenty of ways to make money. Nurses generally earn a decent income, and if you already feel it isn’t enough as a nurse, I doubt becoming a doctor would really change that.
I hope this helps.
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I took a look, wondering what today’s question would be, and this one is pretty difficult.
I’d been thinking that maybe you’d simply been unlucky with the male members you’ve met so far.
Just because you receive an offer doesn’t mean you have to meet everyone who contacts you. I think you should accept offers from people who seem like a good match for you.
Basically, men who send offers are men who haven’t found a match yet, so it makes sense that two people who don’t seem compatible won’t suddenly hit it off when they meet, right?（笑）
In my opinion, there are quite a few decent men among the male members of dating clubs. So take your time and be a little selective.
Also, if you feel that papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) just isn’t right for you, it may be a good idea to pause and reconsider.
There are many ways to make money, but finding one that suits you will probably take quite some time.
You have a long life ahead of you, so don’t rush. Take your time building a solid foundation for the bigger picture of your life（笑）
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From that handsome guy at the women’s escort service’s point of view, the questioner may be nothing more than a gross middle-aged woman. He might even be paying a woman he’s actually attracted to for sex somewhere afterward to cleanse his palate.
Well, that’s what having a job is like. You put up with things to make money, then spend it somewhere you enjoy to blow off steam. You just repeat that cycle.
I find it hard to believe that working solely as a nurse is really that tough. The only part of this question that doesn’t sound made up is the line, “I should have become a doctor.” It feels oddly abrupt here. Did the questioner want to become a doctor but fail to?
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