Tips Oct 4, 2025 12:49

My husband has been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) here, and so many things have fallen apart because of it. The papas (male supporters), the women doing papa-katsu, and the people who work here are all out of their minds.

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It’s a whole group of crazies. You’re all aware of what you’re doing, aren’t you?
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アンディ
顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
From the questioner’s perspective, you’re absolutely right—I’m aware that I’m crazy. I don’t know whether I consider myself a papa-katsu girl. The staff at Universe Club have nothing to do with this, do they?
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m not trying to justify myself, but I’m divorced and single, so the questioner’s criticism doesn’t apply to me. Also, when I was married, I never cheated—including by using escort services. When I do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I generally see single women. I’m simply enjoying myself cleanly by providing an allowance. It’s the questioner’s husband who’s crazy. Calling everyone here who does this crazy is going too far.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Less than 1% of mammals are monogamous, while humans belong to the remaining 99%—the polygamous group. We’re simply forcing naturally polygamous humans into monogamy through the law. So the questioner’s husband isn’t crazy or anything—he’s “normal.” Incidentally, over 90% of birds are monogamous, so a married man who doesn’t get into papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) might actually be a bird in human skin.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
That’s a good question. I think you may find the answer by first considering why your husband started doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in the first place. Try not to let your emotions get the better of you. Think it through calmly and use what you learn to decide how to move forward.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
A question that really got me fired up for the first time in a while I’m glad. The reason I joined this site was because my wife cheated on me first. At first, it definitely made me feel awful, but once I started having fun here, I got over it. You only live once, too. Rather than waving some pointless sense of righteousness around, wouldn’t you be happier if you stopped holding yourself back and had some fun too? Hikaru-kun’s open marriage has been a hot topic, so this is a good opportunity. Don’t you think it’s about time we stopped this trend of attacking people over something as minor as an affair? After all, it’s someone else’s business, so it really shouldn’t matter to us. You’re actually incredibly horny and want to have fun all the time, but being shackled by some pointless notion of chastity seems like such a waste. You might be happier if you reclaimed your sex life through dating apps, singles mixers for married people, mama-katsu, or women’s adult services. If you have enough energy to rant here, put that energy toward something else instead, haha. Fuu chose not to get divorced. As people, we trust each other more than we trust our own parents, since we’ve been together for so long. We simply outsource sex and excitement, while living together normally as a family. We’re both doing great, though… In the end, it all depends on how you look at it. Humans are animals by nature, and biologically, men are built to have sex with lots of healthy women and pass on their genes. God also made sex feel better than drugs, so spending your whole life with just one person can feel like nothing short of hell.
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ジョー・ルビコン
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
Whether she realizes it or not, she probably looks like a total lunatic to her wife. I don’t know how she found this site, but lashing out here in anger at her husband makes her seem pretty unhinged too. Coming from someone as completely unaware of their own craziness as me, you can trust that assessment. Have you been poked at recently? Your writing just seems a little lacking in moisture.
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システムエンジニアの会員
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I’m single myself, and if I find out that someone is married, I won’t make an offer or meet with them. More specifically, I also avoid women who have boyfriends. I want nothing to do with trouble. Wouldn’t it be more constructive to first cool down and have a calm discussion with your husband?
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is one of my hobbies. Drinking and gambling are fine as long as they stay within the realm of hobbies, but they can also ruin your life. As for your husband, you’re just shifting the blame.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m divorced and single, and I don’t date married women. Please don’t write such rude things. Take your complaints to the husband himself. He’s the “crazy person,” as the questioner put it. The club is legal.
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