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Reading the Q&A, I can’t help wondering: aren’t there far too many men who aren’t suited for dating clubs?

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They probably have wives and children, yet they want a beautiful woman young enough to be their daughter—or even granddaughter—to date them out of genuine affection rather than for the money. They seem to think that women who are only interested in money have bad personalities, while women who aren’t have good ones. I find that incredibly self-centered. Which side is actually behaving badly? If that’s what they want, shouldn’t they go to places where people meet without money being involved from the start, such as picking someone up, group dates, or dating apps? That way, they can see women as their genuine selves, without any acting at all. If they’re in a position where women wouldn’t even pretend to be interested in them under normal circumstances, then I think they should actually be grateful when a woman is willing to play along. Most women in society would say no simply because of the age gap, no because the man is married, no to meeting an unknown man one-on-one, or that they’d be instinctively repulsed no matter how much money they were offered. Do staff members let any man join as long as he can pay? During the interview, do they ever tell someone, “You’re not suited for a dating club; you’d be better off meeting people some other way”?
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Maezawa here with my answers. > Reading the question box, I can’t help wondering: Aren’t there far too many men who aren’t suited to a dating club? Looking at the questions posted, some of the men do make me think, “Hmm…” However, in reality, 80% of our members are good men. And the good men are already enjoying positive relationships without needing to post questions here, so they have no reason to use the question box in the first place. Meanwhile, the roughly 10% of men who receive poor feedback are the ones posting questions here one after another. It would be unfortunate if people assumed this represented all our members, as it would unfairly reflect on the men who receive good feedback. Also, since the posts are anonymous, there may be people pretending to be members even though they aren’t actually Universe members. So I don’t think you should take everything in this question box as representative. It’s better to judge based on what the men you actually meet are like. For those considering joining, it may be helpful to understand that while around 10% of men may be like this, most members are people you can feel comfortable with. > Do the staff let any man join as long as he can pay? We do screen applicants, so there are a very small number of men whose applications are rejected. That said, as you suggest, most men do end up being accepted. The reason is simple: when men come in for their interview, they all present themselves as nice people. For example, a man might say: “I’d be perfectly happy just having a meal with women like this. Of course, it would be nice if things progressed further afterward.” But after joining and going on a date, we may receive feedback from the woman such as: “He kept talking about inviting me somewhere after the meal, so I couldn’t even enjoy dinner. I didn’t like how pushy he was.” It makes us wonder, “What happened to that relaxed attitude he had before joining?” If we continue receiving negative feedback, we warn the man. If he doesn’t change even after being warned, he may be forcibly removed from the club for being unsuitable. So we’d really appreciate it if you could send us feedback whenever possible. I believe there was a feedback link on the page you see after logging in to the member site.
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