Tips Jun 27, 2019 00:50

A question for female members or female staff about how to handle women of Dating Type B. You may not be Type B yourself, but I don’t think this is a difficult question to answer.

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When I go on a first date with a woman of Dating Type B, I never bring up money unless she brings it up first. I certainly don’t assume that women of Type B are automatically open to an adult relationship (intimate) from the second date onward. If we both like each other, I’d prefer to meet a few more times before deciding. However, I imagine that talking about such things might feel too blunt or uncomfortable, so I don’t bring them up unless she does. That said, lately I’ve exchanged contact information with women of Type B and said we should meet again, but then they don’t reply when I email them. If the simple reason is that they just didn’t like me, then I can’t help that. But I’ve started to wonder whether they may have thought I was suspicious because I didn’t discuss anything. If that’s the case, perhaps I should talk about the terms (of the arrangement), but I also wonder whether women dislike having that conversation on the very first date. What do you think about not discussing money at all on the first date? I’d appreciate hearing your opinions.
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I’m not one of the female staff members, but Maezawa will answer. I once heard a story like this from a female member: The man never brought up the terms of the arrangement and only talked about wanting a long-term relationship. It seemed like he was looking for a girlfriend or a marriage partner. She said, “That’s not what I’m looking for, so I don’t think I’ll see him again.” Even women with Dating Type B may simply not be comfortable with an adult relationship on the first day. However, it seems necessary to discuss what kind of person the man is and what kind of terms he has in mind. That doesn’t mean you need to discuss specific figures. Just making it clear that you’re looking for a relationship that includes an allowance should be enough to avoid misunderstandings. Alternatively, you could avoid discussing an arrangement altogether and simply enjoy a normal date. That should also prevent any misunderstandings. I don’t know what the person who asked this question talked about during the date, but if they didn’t discuss the possibility of an arrangement at all, then going forward, it might be worth coming up with a strategy—such as choosing a restaurant the woman would enjoy or giving her a small gift. Also, clothing seems to be important. We occasionally receive feedback like, “I was shocked by how awful the man’s outfit was.”
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