This is about someone I met through the site.

They asked to exchange contact information, so I sent them my QR code. When they still hadn’t added me the next day, I thought it wasn’t safe to leave things that way, so I waited a day and updated it to a new QR code. When they said they couldn’t register it, I explained why and exchanged contact information using the new code. We also made plans to meet, but they canceled at the last minute, which made me increasingly uneasy. When we made another appointment, I asked them to send the allowance in advance. They then said I was only doing strange things, like changing my ID and asking for payment upfront. They told me that since everything about the situation made them uncomfortable, we should stop meeting. Am I the one in the wrong here? Is it really strange, from a security standpoint, to change my ID and ask for payment upfront? I don’t really understand how men think, and I know the other person wasn’t entirely at fault either, but I’m frustrated because they blamed me one-sidedly after I had kept my schedule open for them.