I’m a married 40-year-old woman. Would there be any interest if I signed up?

Kida, the representative, will answer. There is definitely a need. In fact, I’d like to start a dating club exclusively for women over 40 someday. The comparison may not be ideal, but “mature women” rank among the most popular categories in adult videos. And mature-women-only cabaret clubs are another phenomenon that would have been unimaginable years ago. I’ve been researching this phenomenon for a long time. Watching erotic videos every day— So yes, there is a need. But as Nanase says, you need to fit “the kind of character men have in mind.” If you’ve ever had someone call out over your shoulder with something like, “Um, are you perhaps a woman? You are, right?” then you’re probably not suited for this. The male users I have in mind are men between 60 and 80. They’re still very much alive and kicking. They can still get erections and go on dates, but their wives of many years no longer want to be intimate with them. *This is supported by statistics. Most women lose their sex drive after menopause.* But they’re still perfectly healthy and don’t want to spend the rest of their lives playing gateball. Of course, there are some Don Juans who insist, “It has to be a beautiful woman in her 20s!” But they’re the minority. Most men are attracted to women 20 to 30 years younger than themselves. So, the women who appeal to men in their 60s to 80s are lively, youthful women in their 40s to 60s. If people genuinely tell you, “My, you’re beautiful,” rather than merely flattering you, and you have a reasonably relaxed outlook on life, there will definitely be a need for you. If you’re so desperate that your electricity and gas have already been shut off and your water is scheduled to be cut off tomorrow, please contact your local city hall rather than a dating club. But if your life is generally stable, your household is functioning well, and you’re simply considering this as an option, it could be a good fit. However, the issue of infidelity remains. If your spouse finds out, you could hurt someone important to you, and there may also be divorce and compensation issues. Unfortunately, Japan currently doesn’t offer anything like infidelity insurance, so you need to create your own safety net in life. Still, you and I will both die someday. Make your decision so you won’t have regrets.

Nanase here. Every papa (male supporter) has different preferences, so being in your 40s doesn’t necessarily mean there’s no demand for you. That said, there’s no guarantee you’ll receive an offer. This applies to everyone, regardless of age or whether they’re married or single. Of course, it’s difficult to recommend someone who hasn’t made any effort or isn’t committed. However, we’ll ask you plenty of questions during the interview and create your profile accordingly. You’re welcome to discuss any concerns during the interview, so I encourage you to come in and meet with us first.