For dates after the first meeting, is going straight to a hotel without dinner considered okay or not?
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Would she think, “This isn’t a brothel!” or instead, “Great, it takes less time”? I’m wondering which it is.
I realize this may not be the most appropriate way to go about things, but I also wonder whether young women might actually prefer skipping the meal, since having dinner with a middle-aged or older man isn’t exactly enjoyable for them either.
If you want the relationship to continue, please listen to what she wants when she’s a good match.
Many women also want to go on dinner dates, and the atmosphere of the restaurants they’re taken to can be an important reflection of their own value. Women and men often see this differently.
I hope the men here will be gentlemen, so please respect the woman’s opinions.
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It depends on the woman. Some genuinely enjoy going to places they couldn’t afford on their own, while others dislike doing hotel-only dates because it feels too much like escort work. On the other hand, some prefer a time-efficient arrangement—almost like being paid by the hour.
If you’re seeing multiple women, it’s convenient to keep both types in your circle so you can invite someone depending on what works for your schedule.
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I think it’s worth a try.
Some women are fine with being invited for an adult relationship (intimate) right away. But if you make the same invitation to others, they may respond, “I’d love to have dinner too,” instead.
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Both men and women probably have needs like that.
There are certainly people who feel it’s perfectly reasonable because it fulfills the main purposes of an adult relationship (intimate) and receiving an allowance.
That said, there’s no denying that it comes close to private prostitution. When I’m short on time, I sometimes just want to see someone even briefly, so it may end up being dinner only (no intimacy), running an errand, going for a drive, or just meeting at a hotel. But I think that’s because we genuinely enjoy being together as a man and woman—whether we have an adult relationship (intimate) or not—so we can have fun doing anything.
Since it’s a dating club, I do wish people would enjoy the relationship itself.
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That’s totally fine.
It’s not dinner-free, but I often pick up something interesting instead of eating out and take it to the hotel. You don’t have to travel anywhere after the meal, you can eat without worrying about being seen, and if you add what you save compared with dining out to the allowance, I doubt many women would object.
(That said, doing this every time might not be ideal, so it’s best to mix things up in consultation with her.)
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It depends on the woman, so try making an offer and asking her. There are plenty of women out there. If you reach out to enough of them, I’m sure you’ll eventually find someone who’s a perfect match for you.
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It varies from woman to woman, and I think opinions can also differ depending on the man they’re dealing with.
Regardless of gender, haven’t you forgotten that everyone has their own individual thoughts and perspectives?
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