An adult relationship (intimate) takes a lot out of you physically, doesn’t it?
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I had dinner after work one weekend, then went to a hotel afterward. Between being tired from work and feeling full from the meal, I got sleepy after taking a shower and being intimate.
Now I’m wondering if it would be better to go to the hotel first and eat afterward.
Do you usually have dinner first, or afterward?
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When I’m in the mood for a proper meal and drinks—like when I add an all-you-can-drink option to dinner—I do our dates in the order of hotel first, then dinner.
But apparently women are more sensitive when they’re full, so usually we do dinner first, then the hotel.
Dinner = foreplay lol
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On weekday evenings after work, meetings are usually around 7 p.m. If you go to the hotel first and eat afterward, many women end up feeling extremely hungry and don’t like having dinner so close to bedtime.
Also, if the hotel comes first, their hair and makeup will get messed up—especially for those who tend to sweat easily—so having to get ready again can be a hassle.
In situations like that, having food delivered to the hotel through Uber Eats or a similar service is one option.
It can also be fun to try different arrangements together.
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If you’re meeting sometime between around 2 and 5 p.m., going to a hotel first would feel perfectly natural.
In summer, you could say that the heat has killed your appetite, which would make it possible to just have a light meal at the hotel—or skip the meal altogether.
If you’re meeting after work on the weekend, it’s perfectly natural for him to fall asleep, since he may be exhausted. After work, he’ll probably want to satisfy his hunger first, and on the weekend, he may be looking forward to the meal even more and enjoying a well-deserved drink. Falling asleep afterward can happen too. Ideally, it would be nice to enjoy an adult relationship (intimate) first and then sleep soundly, but if he’s worn out from the week, it’s understandable that it depends on the day—and it’s not a problem at all.
I think it’s best to go with whatever flow you can enjoy yourself.
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In my case, I usually meet during the day, so if we go to a hotel first, we’d have to meet as early as 10:00 a.m. That’s why we usually have a meal first.
That said, it’s not that we never go to a hotel first. I think it depends on the schedule of the woman I’m seeing.
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