For example, if you were working a part-time job, you’d hate it if you got paid the same for working eight hours as you did for five hours of the same work, right? So naturally, you want to make it hourly pay. Fair enough.
Unfortunately, though, even well-off papas—including yours truly—absolutely hate the phrase “hourly rate.” So keep those words hidden deep in your heart and try asking for an increase instead. The key is a coy little “Mmmh” ❤️. No, you definitely don’t need to take your panties off. Think carefully and study what kind of “Mmmh” would be most effective. Depending on the situation, crying might even work.
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With an hourly rate, it starts to feel pretty much like sex work, so from the man’s perspective, it’s not a particularly pleasant arrangement.
It’s up to you, so why not try asking for 20,000 yen more?
Though it would probably end up being an adult relationship (intimate) without dinner. If you’re okay with that, then go ahead.
There are many different ways to have an arrangement, so as long as both of you are satisfied, I think any setup is fine.
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Whether it’s two or three hours, eight hours, or even more than ten, the allowance is usually about the same.
I sometimes think that a genuine relationship is one where you’re with someone and the time just flies by.
Since there’s no one who makes you feel like your time is being wasted, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) can, in a sense, be time that helps you forget that. Some people may approach papa-katsu with the same focus on efficiency as they would a job, in which case prioritizing time efficiency on both sides can make for a more efficient arrangement.
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I don’t.
Whether we wrap things up after about two hours, spend the whole day golfing, having a meal, and going to a hotel, or take a trip for a few days, the allowance is the same.
Even so, I still get invited to play golf and go on trips. My partner doesn’t seem to think of it in terms of an hourly rate, either.
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Since weekday dates usually last three to four hours, I set separate amounts for:
A. Dates with an adult relationship (intimate)
B. Dates without an adult relationship
On weekends, the dates are longer, so I charge the combined amount of A + B.
I don’t set more specific rates based on the exact number of hours.
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