Tips Jul 14, 2024 06:30

When I suggest several possible dates for our next meeting, like:

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○ Month X, Date X X Date X Date ○ Month X, Date X X Date … I get replies like, “I can’t meet that often~ ////” or “It’d be financially tough to do all of those.” Do they not understand that these are just options? Do they intend to meet on every available date? I was planning to arrange my hospital visits, salon appointments, trips, and other plans after deciding when to see my papa. Should I instead make my own plans first and then tell him which days I’m available? If I do that, there’s a chance none of my available days will match his schedule. Am I unusual for prioritizing my papa when making plans, or is this papa unusual? (My previous question was posted incorrectly. Please delete it.)
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Maybe the questioner simply failed to make it clear by leaving out, “Please choose one day from this list.” Or, after the papa’s reply, you could just send, “Please choose one day from these options.” That’s what I think, anyway...
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Maybe that papa (male supporter) genuinely can’t think of anything but silly ideas… If he’s deliberately acting clueless, you could try calling him out on it.
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ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I think that’s just their sense of humor. Your ability to come back with a witty retort is being put to the test.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s generally understood to mean one day or the other. That papa (a male supporter) is either an idiot, inexperienced and not used to this, broke, or sees you as very low priority and is just messing with you. It’s probably one of those. If he doesn’t get back to you soon, go ahead and make other plans.
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Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I think this papa (male supporter) is unusual. I don’t know whether there simply aren’t many like him or whether he’s completely smitten with you, but he sounds like a very earnest person, so please don’t treat him carelessly.
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