¥250,000 for two nights is actually an amazing deal!
That’s 24 hours a day for three days, after all. Even if he’s a good papa (a male supporter), it can still be mentally exhausting, and the fatigue can affect your daily life for several days afterward.
If your papa gives you around ¥1–2 million a month, then I suppose an occasional trip—once every two to six months—could be reasonable.
Reading this question made me wonder: I don’t know what era they’re living in, but are there really still male members whose sense of how much allowance to offer is stuck in the past?
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For the younger sugar babies, that sounds like nothing but a grueling ordeal.
And once again, the male respondents’ answers are way too funny lol
No matter how generous the allowance is, I wouldn’t go unless it was with my favorite papa♡
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LOL. Are you talking about back in the day, when it was compensated dating and “room fee separate, 15,000 yen”? LOL. Just kidding.
Honestly, I don’t think that amount is exceptionally high. At that price, a woman might hope the papa (a male supporter) will give up—or, in the worst case, it’s an amount she could tolerate even if things went that far. So I’d say it’s probably the upper limit.
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To answer your question, everyone has different attitudes toward money.
I’m not really someone who travels, but if I were to take a trip, I’d arrange separate sleeping quarters and make sure she had some time to herself during the day so she wouldn’t feel uncomfortable.
(Though, when it comes to sleeping arrangements, I’m actually the one who doesn’t want to sleep with someone else.)
It’s sad when money is the only deciding factor in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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Whether you’re the one paying or the one receiving money, if you’re dreading it, you shouldn’t go.
If you’re the one paying, you shouldn’t go unless you genuinely want to accommodate her wishes because she’s willing to go with you. If you accidentally invited her, cancel with everything you’ve got.
Also, labels like Standard and Gold are decided by the club, independently of the women, to maximize the club’s fee revenue. If you’re thinking, “She’s Gold, though…,” then you’re simply not satisfied with the woman herself—not with her class. I’d like people to keep those things separate. There are women you click with in the Standard class too, and plenty of them are attractive.
Three days, 72 hours? If you meet at noon on the first day and part ways at 6 p.m. on the third day, isn’t that more like 54 hours?
Still, it’s pretty obvious that you feel the burden is too much. Spending 72 hours straight rolling prayer beads and chanting sutras would be genuine ascetic training.
If that’s how you feel, you shouldn’t go. You’ll inevitably make a displeased face or let slip some unnecessary comment that shows how much you hate it.
From a papa’s lifetime value perspective, wouldn’t it be most profitable to endure it for the money only for as short a time as you can manage—like holding your breath?
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Spending 24 hours a day for three days with a woman who’s forcing herself to see you sounds like nothing but a punishment game.
It’s amazing that you can still enjoy yourself, even though her negative energy must be coming through loud and clear（笑）
A man who gives her one or two million yen every month and still wants to subject himself to that kind of punishment can only be described as a “Reiwa-era ascetic monk.”
I’m actually starting to wonder what kind of enlightenment he’ll achieve at the end of all that suffering.
I bet he’ll become as strong as Gyomei Himejima. I’m writing this while shedding tears and chanting Buddhist prayers, lol.
Taro
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What’s the point of going on a trip if you’re constantly worrying about the allowance…? This applies to both women and men.
If a woman wants to enjoy herself, she should go wherever she wants, whenever she can. And if the other person is only willing to go while keeping track of the allowance, then neither the woman nor the man should go.
When you’re enjoying the trip, the allowance can naturally come from that satisfaction, and you can receive it without fixating on it. If the trip is genuinely fun, it’ll be full of surprises, fresh experiences, and enjoyable moments, and time will fly by so quickly that you’ll feel it’s a shame to spend any of it on an adult relationship. That’s the kind of person you should travel with. Of course, in a relationship like that, even if you don’t have much time, the adult relationship will probably be more satisfying too…
A trip centered around calculating the allowance or pursuing an adult relationship is obviously boring when you think about it normally…
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