He keeps things from me, and I wish he wouldn’t. I already know about them.
I’m losing more and more respect for him, and I find myself looking down on him. Putting myself aside, I’ve started to think he’s really not much of a man in general.
Thinking about it makes me so frustrated. I want to convey this anger—or rather, this feeling of resentment—in a way that drags him down.
What would be the best revenge?
That sounds exhausting.
Since papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) involves money in the first place, isn’t trying to be your papa’s number one kind of a weird premise? lol
Why not look for a boyfriend on a dating app?
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I understand how you feel.
It’s incredibly frustrating when a useless papa (a male supporter) who can only get women by paying for them keeps things from you. It makes you want to tell him, “I already know everything.”
Honestly, if you’re going to lie, at least be better at it than I am. Watching these kinds of old men really gets on my nerves. I can’t respect them anymore, either.
As for revenge, the longer you stay together, the more you learn what your papa hates, right? Why not do that when you break things off?
I’m already planning what I’ll do when I part ways with my papa.
It would be amusing to imagine the shocked, slack-jawed look on his face as the image he has of me completely falls apart.
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You’re getting the goal and the means completely backwards—for example, attacking and excluding people who don’t agree with your idea of diversity in the name of respecting diversity, or bombarding a woman with calls and stalking her in order to make her like you.
A woman as aggressive as the questioner will never be anyone’s first choice. The only reason some foolish, oblivious person might temporarily mistake her for number one is that they haven’t noticed her aggression yet. They will inevitably distance themselves.
No one falls in love with an aggressive person. From the standpoint of our survival instincts, that’s only natural—the way things are meant to be.
Even if you become someone’s first choice for a moment, you’ve chosen a losing life in which you’ll inevitably be exposed for your aggressive true nature and quickly fall from that position.
I’ll do my best to avoid women like that, and to get away quickly if I do meet one. I hope the questioner will do her best too.
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All things are impermanent.
Everything in this world is constantly changing at its core. Nothing remains the same, because existence itself cannot maintain a fixed identity.
Everything may seem to have meaning, but ultimately it doesn’t. All that remains are the facts.
In other words, you’re irritated because you’ve assigned your own meaning to things and become attached to it.
Why are you irritated? That’s a problem within yourself. Put your hand over your heart and start by listening to your inner voice. You’ll find the answer.
Namu.
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I understand the urge to make him eat his words. But there’s a good chance you’ll get back more than twice the “gotcha” you dished out. And it may not even come from your papa (a male supporter)—you never know where the arrows will come flying from. That’s the problem. I’m telling you, it’s true!
If you’re consumed by the desire to make someone eat their words, that just shows how immature you are as a person. And you’re probably bored, too. Your twenties are the time to lay the groundwork for your future. You’ve got plenty of better things to do than trying to put some old guy in his place.
You’re young, so get it together!
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