I’ve been using this service since January and have probably received a lot of new offers as a Platinum-tier member. In the past, I worked at dating cafés and in compensated escort services while pretending to be a college student, and I’m currently presenting myself as a graduate student. However, the other day, a papa hired a private investigator and found out who I really was.

That’s scary. Good thing you ended things right away. Their obsession and clinginess are seriously intense. There aren’t many weirdos like that.

I have no interest whatsoever in the other person’s background. I’m not looking for a marriage partner here, so if there’s something they want to keep hidden, I think the relationship will go more smoothly if I simply take them at their word. That said, some men may feel they’ve been deceived. If you’re getting plenty of offers, I think it’s better to see someone who won’t pry into your background rather than try to figure out how to avoid being found out.