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Jul 8, 2024 22:58
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One of them has told me to stop seeing the others.
We met through a dating club, so I think it’s ridiculous for him to act like he can control me.
I believe I’m free to see whoever I want. It’s a simple point—how can someone in his sixties not understand that? How can I naturally let this papa fade out of my life?
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🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Tell him, “If you triple my allowance, I swear to God I won’t see anyone else. You can even put a GPS tracker on me.” Ask for triple the allowance right away.
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you tell him exactly what’s written here, the arrangement will probably disappear.
I get the feeling that what you’re looking for isn’t just money.
If you wanted to turn your papa’s proposal back on him, you could say: “I’ll stop seeing my other papas, but I have one condition. Pay me three months’ worth of the total allowance I receive from all my other papas up front, and then continue paying me the full monthly amount each month. If you can do that, I’ll end things with them.”
The idea is that after being dumped by a papa in his 60s, it would take about three months to find a new one.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I appreciate you saying that.
But that wouldn’t be enough money for me.
Could you add on the amount you’d lose by ending it?
How about this? It might naturally lead to things ending. In other words, you just need to make them dislike you.
横断歩道
Male
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re asking how to let things naturally fade out with someone who doesn’t seem likely to just disappear, right?
Maybe keep in touch just enough to avoid being ambushed, while gradually cooling things off over a longer period of time.
If that sounds like too much hassle, consider ending things in a way other than letting them fade out.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it’s okay to interpret things in a positive light.
If you appreciate the fact that he likes you enough to want to keep you to himself, I imagine he’ll stop saying such ridiculous things.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If you stop contacting him and replying to his messages, things will probably just fizzle out naturally. You're in your twenties—don't you know something that basic?