Tips Jul 7, 2024 02:37

I’m struggling with how to handle the seemingly endless desire of an older man who has difficulty finishing during sex.

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I wish he could just finish quickly, but I think he can’t—and still wants to. When we stay together, he asks repeatedly for hours, both at night and in the morning, so I’m wondering if there’s any way to deal with it. Pretending to finish or pretending to fall asleep hasn’t worked. I’d be happy if I could help him finish through my own efforts, but I’m also wondering whether his age makes it physically difficult. I’d appreciate any advice on technique or on how to get him to give up.
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 40s 👑 Universe female member
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Since it hurts, set a limit on how many times you’ll do it. Try your best to pretend you’re enjoying it and have climaxed, and get him aroused and finished quickly. If things don’t improve, break things off.
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Is this really something that can be solved just by orgasming? Even if you do, couldn’t it start up again after a little while? I feel like you need to make sure you’re both on the same page first.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
What feels good during sex varies from person to person, for both men and women. In other words, the techniques that work for someone are something you’ll need to discover with that particular partner. I think the best approach is to ask them as you go.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If it’s not workable for you, you should just give up and move on. If you’re not going to give me twice as much, then we’re done.
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紙ひこうき
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Why not take some time to learn what helps you reach orgasm? For many men, seeing the woman satisfied is more fulfilling than reaching orgasm themselves, so they may be able to finish in a much shorter time. Pretending to climax can backfire, so you may also need to learn to tell him what you want him to do to help you climax. If the way you respond when you’re enjoying yourself can satisfy him, he may feel fulfilled too—and things might be over in a fraction of the time they take now. Above all, a papa (a male supporter) often enjoys pleasing women. If he can’t do that and simply finishes quickly without making you feel satisfied, I honestly think it would be better to part ways…
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