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Jul 7, 2024 02:33
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think you should just say it.
Who decided that being Platinum means the allowance has to be 80,000 yen?
You’re free to set your own allowance. You can ask for 80,000 yen as a Gold member or 30,000 yen as a Platinum member. I think it’s perfectly fine for the woman to decide her rate and decline anything below it.
If you clearly state your desired allowance on your profile, it’ll save everyone time, so please do that.
On Pato, you can enter your desired allowance directly. At a club, you can tell the staff, which will help you avoid being told things like what you described in your question.
That way, I won’t have to make an offer either, so please.
横断歩道
Male
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Honestly, which would you choose?
For example:
- Allowance of 8, with no gift
- Allowance of 5, plus a gift worth about 10
Which one is better?
It’s nonsense to judge a relationship based solely on the allowance.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
There are plenty of things to call out here, but if you have a stable 80k arrangement that doesn’t look like it’ll get cut off, you can absolutely kick the table and say, “I can’t deal with a cheapskate. You’re such a loser.”
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The men who give her 80,000 yen or more may be dating her with the understanding that she’s someone who cares about receiving an allowance of 80,000 yen or so.
Since this is a relationship premised on an allowance, I think each person has different priorities—whether the allowance comes first or having a good time comes first—and different things they’re willing to accept as part of the arrangement.
It’s also true that some women in especially difficult financial situations are less tied to the allowance.