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Jul 6, 2024 16:34
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I’m a man considering joining your club, but I’m looking for a woman who wants to focus on a relationship with one man rather than meeting lots of men.
Also, regarding referral fees: if I join the Platinum class and am introduced to a Gold-class woman, is the fee based on the man’s class (Platinum) or the woman’s class (Gold)?
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Since many women register here because they need money, it can be pretty difficult.
As for the club, either one is fine as long as it has a large enough membership base. What matters is having plenty of offers from men.
There may be a few women who choose to stick with just one person, but you might have to make offers to a lot of women before you find one like that.
Another option would be to meet a woman soon after she joins, ask how much allowance she would need in order not to date any other papas, and then offer that amount on the condition that she sticks with you as her only papa.
If she had planned to date five men, you would have to cover what she would have earned from all five.
That’s pretty difficult ^_^
Since you haven’t registered yet, I’ll mention this: at the end of the day, this is a relationship involving money, so it’s difficult to expect much in the way of traditional fidelity.
Even if you get her to focus on just you, if she treats it as a transactional relationship, it won’t be very enjoyable for you as a man.
And if you’re also seeing multiple women, the transactional feeling becomes even stronger. You can always end things and focus on a relationship with another regular partner.
Dating multiple women is more enjoyable here, and it probably suits this kind of arrangement better.
横断歩道
Male
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It says the question is for the representative or staff, but I’d like to add a comment.
Even if someone says they “want an arrangement with just one person,” they may meet ten people before settling on one, or continue looking for someone with better terms even after choosing one.
So the club probably doesn’t think anything of it.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think both men and women ideally want a good relationship focused on just one person. (From the club’s perspective as well, more satisfying relationships lead to a better reputation.)
Some people may eventually choose to see multiple partners, while others may do so because a one-person relationship doesn’t suit their ideal.
For you, achieving your ideal probably means becoming the kind of man a woman chooses exclusively. Unless you fulfill her wishes as well, your own wishes won’t be fulfilled either.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Even if you intend to focus on seeing just one person, the first man you meet won’t automatically become that person, so I don’t think the club staff would have any particular concerns.
The setting fee is determined by the woman’s class.