I'm a female member. When I first registered, I logged in and looked at my profile photo, thinking, “Oh, so this is the first photo people see,” but a few weeks later, it had been changed to a different one. After it was changed to another photo, I started receiving more and more offers, but recently, there were two occasions in a row where I was slow to respond after receiving an offer, and the offer was canceled. When I logged in to my page for the first time in a while, it had been changed back to the profile photo from when I first registered.
Are the profile photos of female members—the one displayed first—changed by the staff that frequently?
Because I was slow to respond twice, did they change it back to the photo that was displayed before I started receiving offers so that I won’t get any more offers in the future?
Maezawa here with an answer.
> Do the staff really change female members’ profile photos—the ones displayed first—that frequently?
Normally, they don’t. However, if a staff member thinks a woman is especially worth recommending, they may change her photo fairly often.
> Since I was slow to respond twice, did they change my photo back to the one shown when I wasn’t receiving offers so that I wouldn’t get any more offers?
There’s no intention of making sure offers stop coming in. If they did something like that, the company would reprimand them—and even if they didn’t, the company would decline.
As for the photo, it’s more likely that they tried changing the original photo they thought was good, then decided the original was better and switched it back.
It’s also possible that a man complained that the photo looked too different from her in person and asked them to change it.
I don’t know the reason, but if you think this photo is more likely to bring you offers, you could contact the staff and say something like, “Could you please set my previous photo as the main one?”
Regardless of the photo, if someone fails to respond twice—or takes an extremely long time to respond—it may be treated the same way. Since they can’t coordinate things even if an offer comes in, the staff may ask, “Your replies have been slow, so would you prefer to choose another woman, or would you still like to proceed with the offer?”
In that case, many men choose someone else, so it’s best to avoid taking too long to reply.
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