Even when I find a woman I like on the site, I hesitate if her registration date is from several years ago. I can’t help thinking, “Wow, she’s been doing this for that long?”
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Even when I see a woman with high ratings, I find myself assuming she must have met a lot of different people.
Are there really so few women who are looking to find one person and continue seeing them regularly?
Is it strange to feel hesitant about women who have been registered for a long time or are especially popular?
I’m starting to wonder if papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) just isn’t for me.
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I totally get how you feel! I’m the same way〜
When it’s a woman who’s been registered for a long time—especially one with a five-star rating—you start thinking, “She’s popular and gets offers from so many men, so what’s the point of me making an offer now...?”
Why not make an offer to a newcomer who doesn’t have any ratings yet?
Although, after meeting and talking with her, you might discover that while she’s new to the club, she’s actually a seasoned app user...?!
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I understand how you feel.
But just because someone has been registered for a long time doesn’t necessarily mean she’s been involved with a lot of people.
For example, she may have joined two years ago, received offers from a few people, and then deleted her account.
If she registers again later, she’ll often receive fewer offers than before—and some women may still come across as completely inexperienced.
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It’s basically market forces at work. Offers naturally tend to concentrate on attractive women, since men register because they want to spend money on beautiful women and have sex with them. It can’t really be helped.
Conversely, even if a woman has been registered for a long time, if she only has a three-star rating at the club or no rating on Pato, she may simply have received zero offers.
So, in conclusion, if you make offers to women who don’t seem to be getting any—women who aren’t especially attractive—you might be able to become the questioner’s one and only papa (a male supporter).
You can’t have everything in this world: either a beautiful woman with multiple papas, or an unattractive woman for whom you’re the only papa. lol
There are actually quite a few women who receive no offers, so if you target that group, you’ll be treated like an ideal supporter by the female members.
By the way, women who have multiple papas and high ratings are usually able to satisfy each man even while dating several people, so being with them is often enjoyable.
In most cases, their adult relationship (intimate) dates are good—or even exceptionally good—and when they’re with you, they often won’t make you feel the presence of their other papas. They’re just very good at it. lol
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Wow… I don’t even know what to say anymore, haha.
The years have really flown by, haven’t they? Hahahaha~
I hope I can make sure I’m not just getting older without any real purpose.
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I don’t think there’s any particular problem with that.
I also tend to make offers to women who have just joined, or whose ratings haven’t changed even after a few months.
Quite a few of the women I met also seemed to prefer keeping the number of people they see to a minimum. If they can reach their target amount with just a few supporters, they probably don’t want to meet an unspecified number of people.
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You might be well-suited for it.
Especially if you enjoy dating and building a relationship.
Many women also want to take a liking to one man and pursue a long-term relationship with him (though very few probably get that wish fulfilled in reality…). If both people want the same thing, I think those kinds of miraculous, dreamlike relationships are possible.
Of course, you also need to be the kind of man who matches that vision.
If you’re the type of man who enjoys seeing multiple women as a transactional arrangement, a woman won’t be able to feel secure about having a long-term relationship with just you. You also need to give her a sense of security and the confidence that you won’t suddenly cut things off.
Since she may still be inexperienced and unfamiliar with all of this, it’s possible to build a fresh, exciting, and enjoyable relationship filled with wonderful surprises—something that makes both the man and the woman very happy—while keeping that sense of freshness alive.
In that case, I think it can be effective to make offers exclusively to women who have just joined.
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If popular women don’t date multiple people, it makes it harder for us to get a chance to see them...
Since men are the ones who make offers here, popular women usually receive a decent number of offers soon after being newly listed and quickly reach a 5-star rating, so there’s not much to worry about. That said, I do hesitate when someone has been registered for a long time but still has a low rating.
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Continuing to see someone regularly also comes down to chemistry and timing.
Maybe you simply haven’t met a man you genuinely want to keep seeing. Or perhaps you took a break or left the service while you were seeing someone regularly.
If you judge people solely by when they registered, this may not be the right fit for you.
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In times like that, I think it’s best to offer a modest-looking newcomer an opportunity and treat her exceptionally well.
I’d be prepared to support her financially for several years and really commit to making it work.
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