Tips Jun 30, 2024 03:58

I’m a woman in my 20s who I believe would be considered platinum class.

This content is machine-translated.
I think the allowance is usually around ¥100,000 or ¥200,000 per meeting, but the other day, a man offered ¥70,000. I could maybe understand that amount for dinner only, but it seems like he’s also considering an adult relationship. Are there really such stingy men at dating clubs? Or is he just looking down on me...?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
💗 Likes 0 👁️ Views 151 💬 Answers 12
🔖 ID 0XTE]-00000 🎯 Looking for answers from 誰でも

6 answers

If you’ve been a member of Universe Club for several months and receive plenty of offers, that’s one thing. But if offers are rare, being too picky means you may not even get a measly ¥10,000.
(3 replies left)
横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you’re that confident in yourself, why not make money in some other way? Just as there’s no point recommending expensive alcohol to someone who doesn’t drink, there’s no point trying to impress someone who doesn’t recognize your value.
(3 replies left)
Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
There aren’t many papas who can pay that much. You just happened to meet one or two lucky papas you were able to date. You should be grateful for that. I’d guess they make up only a single-digit percentage of the male members. You’re free to feel however you want about it. But by your definition, the majority of men are stingy. You’ll probably just end up having unpleasant experiences, so I recommend quitting the club. P.S. “That’s just your opinion, isn’t it? Do you have any data?” (in the style of Hiroyuki) Here’s the club’s survey data, lol: https://universe-club.jp/media/123220/
(3 replies left)
日月新
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。 最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。 スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
You’re saying you’re willing to have an adult relationship with anyone, but you want either ¥100,000 per meeting or a fixed amount of ¥200,000. ① In that case, I’d recommend an upscale delivery escort service or another adult-entertainment business. You should be paid the amount set by the establishment, without having to negotiate the price. ② Based on the idea you described at the beginning, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) would be difficult. Many men turn to it because they don’t want to use adult-entertainment services, so an allowance-only approach based on a fixed price probably won’t work well. They may weigh the allowance at eight or nine out of ten when considering the allowance, personality, and appearance. But if the allowance is the only thing that matters, papa-katsu will likely be painful and very difficult for you.
(3 replies left)
ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Let me put it the other way around. Are there really women at dating clubs who are this fixated on money? Or are they just being taken lightly? Unless the man did something genuinely unpleasant to her, I honestly can’t understand how she can call him cheap when accepting an allowance from him. If the amount doesn’t work for her, couldn’t she simply decline politely and move on to the next one?
(3 replies left)
紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
There are men who prefer women who think “10 or 20 per meeting is the norm,” and men who feel the opposite. Even among people who prioritize allowances and an adult relationship, there are both men and women who also place importance on the relationship itself. Since you seem to judge things based on the allowance first, you’ll probably get along well with that kind of man—and may find more ordinary men rather stingy. If you enjoy seeing each other (and both feel you’re important to one another), I don’t think money matters so much that you’d even need to insist on 70, regardless of social class.
(3 replies left)