I have a pay-per-meeting adult date planned with a 73-year-old man I was introduced to through this site. The allowance is 5.
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When he first made the offer, he told me that he takes a long time to finish, so using his hands at the end would be fine. He also said that about two hours would be enough for the date.
Unfortunately, it falls on the same day as a date with my regular papa, and I’m having trouble deciding which one to prioritize. My regular papa is 55, and our five-hour adult date comes with an allowance of 5.
This time, my regular papa was elected as an executive at a well-known company during the shareholders’ meeting. He’s very concerned about protecting his position, and although we’ve been seeing each other three times a month for almost a year, I’m worried that he may cut me off now that he has been promoted. He says he’ll make time for me even if he gets busier, but I’m still very anxious.
I’m wondering whether I should take this opportunity to switch to the 75-year-old man, who seems to have more free time and offer better time efficiency. In terms of both personality and appearance, I find my 55-year-old papa more attractive, but in the end, we only met through a dating club. I understand that our relationship may eventually come to an end.
Which papa should I prioritize seeing?
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You don’t have to jump to conclusions based on your own assumptions. Why not continue seeing the 55-year-old papa while also dating the 75-year-old papa?
I honestly don’t understand why you have to choose just one.
I can understand the idea of maximizing your time, but make sure you do your best to hide any obvious signs that you’re trying to rush things in front of your papa. They’ll dislike you for it.
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Even if it’s not with you, he can find someone else easily.
If he feels that you’re only thinking about saving time and effort, even a 73-year-old man may cut things off with you.
Don’t look down on the other person too much.
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It’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so the arrangement could end at any time. I think it’s better to have two other papa (male supporters) as well.
Since the dates happened to overlap this time, ask the new papa to change the date.
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Doing adult relationships (intimate) with both of them on the same day would be a bit much, wouldn’t it?
If it were me, I’d prioritize the attractive papa (a male supporter) I have a monthly arrangement with. I feel like that would ultimately last longer.
Once you start worrying about time efficiency, things that are supposed to be fun stop being fun.
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I think 73 and 75 are quite different…
That older guy I’ve mentioned occasionally before is still incredibly energetic even in his 70s, and he’s able to win over everyone from yakiniku restaurant staff to flight attendants—not through papa-katsu, either. Even so, I’m starting to feel that around 72 or 73 may be his limit…
At 75, you never know what the future holds, so I’d probably say it’s better to pass.
At 73, though, it might be worth considering…
That said, I think you could date either—or even both on the same day.
At clubs, some people have had arranged dates with four different partners in a single day, so I think doing it on the same day is perfectly possible.
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If it’s not Christmas or your birthday, why schedule both for the same time?
If you really don’t mind either way:
- Prioritize the plans you made first.
- Ask both of them to reschedule, then prioritize whoever is more accommodating.
- Roll a die to decide.
- See them both.
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Seeing Biden in such a sorry state makes you want to say, “Stay away from old men,” doesn’t it? (lol) They’re 78 and 81, so they’re definitely on the older end, but what do you think after actually comparing them?
Trump is still sexually active, and he seems to have the energy to keep going all the way to the finish. By the way, Tamori is 78—the same age as Trump. Kato-chan is 81, the same age as Biden. So if you think of Trump vs. Biden as Tamori vs. Kato-chan, it might feel a little more relatable. Honestly, though, Trump’s energy is monstrous. (lol)
Incidentally, Mrs. Dewi is 84, so in my mind, Trump and Mrs. Dewi belong in the same category.
As an aside, Naoko Ken is 70, Akiko Wada is 74, and Tetsuko Kuroyanagi is 90. I have various thoughts about all this, but I won’t write them out since it would take too long.
To the person who asked this question: I hope you’ll consider which one you would vote for in a presidential election if you were an American—or, for that matter, whether you’d vote for Tamori or Kato-chan.
If I had to put it another way, I think the fundamental challenge is finding a way out of those two ultimate-choice situations. Maybe you’re at the stage where it’s time to bring out a reshoot with the full package and plenty of preparation, or unleash a barrage of reverse offers—“Dating Breathing, Second Form”—along with messages like “You’re wonderful!” and the like.
Taro
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Hey, don’t bring harsh reality into a world of dreams, lol.
Ultimately, it all comes down to cost-effectiveness—age, compatibility, looks, none of that matters. That’s what you’re saying, right?
I know that’s how this world works, but plenty of men are still dreaming without realizing it, so stop getting in the way of Universal’s profits.
This is Universal’s platform, after all.
It’s the same as saying out loud that there’s a human inside Mickey at Disneyland.
With that in mind, I’ll say this unequivocally: let’s keep both going.
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