Tips Jun 24, 2024 04:02

I’m a little annoyed with my papa (a male supporter), and when he asked what I wanted for my birthday, I freely sent him a whole list of expensive designer items since I was still upset. After that, I added, “But you probably don’t want to give me anything too expensive, so out of these, this one might be best.”

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Did I hurt his pride as a man?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Not stated
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
A relationship where you can say whatever’s on your mind isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Especially in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). If you’re close enough to argue, you could even see it as consideration and caring. Being able to say anything to each other probably means you like each other that much.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
What a waste. If you’d asked nicely, you might have gotten it. Instead, you said something that only added fuel to the fire. You could either complain and feel better, or hold back and say: “I’m sorry about the other day. Thank you. I’d really like ___.” You might have gotten it that way. Ah, what a waste. Such a waste.
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Maybe your papa (a male supporter) was giving you an opportunity to make up? It sounds like you let your relationship with him fall apart over pride. If I were you, I’d text him: “I’ve wanted ○○ for sooo long! I love you, papa!” Satoshi: “Got ○○!”
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日月新
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。 最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。 スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
Being able to argue over LINE—you’re young and adorable. Even your papa sounds kind of youthful; it’s sweet. LINE gives you a chance to pause and cool down. Hopefully, from now on, you’ll be able to calm yourself and send messages that work out best for you. Your papa losing his temper actually worked out well—he ended up giving you the most expensive gift. Nicely done.
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Meg
🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I get that you might say something like that when you’re angry, but… there’s absolutely nothing to gain from saying it. There are ways of phrasing things that appeal to a man’s ego, you know.
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Probably not, right? Are you trying to show that you’re so close you can even have lovers’ quarrels?
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t believe in giving gifts, so I’ll end things right away. Good morning.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
As with this question, I find myself thinking, “What is this person getting all worked up over?”
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
If someone said that to me, I’d end up thinking, “Wait, do they like me?”
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