I’ve met a man I connected with through this club about three times since meeting him at the end of May.
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When we met for the third time, he told me he’d apparently bought a fairly expensive car. He said, “It’ll be delivered at the end of June, and I’ll probably be driving it around and going to various places, so I won’t be able to see you for a while.” Do you think he was indirectly telling me that he doesn’t want to see me anymore?
I did wonder if he just doesn’t want to drive around with me, haha.
I’ve never been the one to message him saying I wanted to meet. He’s always been the one to invite me. Also, our third meeting was 10 days ago.
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This is just Fuu’s personal speculation, but perhaps your priority in his eyes has gone down.
You’ve been intimate three times, but he preferred other women. He hasn’t contacted you saying he wants to see you, and he regularly meets another woman who tells him she wants to see him and with whom things get heated.
Still, he doesn’t want to break things off with you completely. Maybe he wants to see you once every two or three months, just for a little variety, lol.
Using his car as an excuse, he may be indirectly telling you that he can’t meet every month.
Something along those lines, maybe. But again, this is just speculation.
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Did you know that even ordinary people can buy expensive cars? As long as they can get approved for a loan, even someone living in public housing can buy one.
To the person who asked the question: if he said you won’t be able to see each other for the foreseeable future, he probably has no intention of seeing you again. You should be the one to cut him loose. Though, I suppose the relationship was already over.
There’s no need to stay involved with someone who can only say goodbye in such a thoughtless way.
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People who are into cars can spend an entire day driving on the highway just for fun. That’s hardly ideal for a date.
Maybe he plans to spend all his free time in the car, like a child who’s been given a new toy.
Won’t he come back once he gets bored? Maybe he was just talking about cars in a childish way.
If you want him to take you for a drive, you could ask, but considering what might happen in an accident, it may be better not to get in. A sports car is certainly not something an amateur can handle.
Rather than making assumptions or relying on random answers here, why not ask him directly? If even that feels like too much trouble, it probably isn’t worth thinking about in the first place. Go do something else!
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It probably means, “You should at least make an effort to entertain him a little more than a car would.”
But don’t worry.
That kind of condescending comment was probably made after the deed. He likely got carried away once he was thinking clearly again and misunderstood the situation.
A car can’t satisfy his sexual urges, so I’m sure he’ll contact you again even if you do nothing. Don’t force yourself to act submissive—just wait.
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He’s basically talking down to you, indirectly telling you to either break things off or start asking him out yourself.
If he’s a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter), there’s plenty of competition, so you’ll just have to send him follow-up messages.
If he’s low-paying, block him and move on to the next one.
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