Tips Jun 21, 2024 06:43

I often use papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) apps with a female friend my age.

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Before meeting a man for the first meeting, I always tell him, “I receive an allowance for the first meeting as well—is that okay?” and then meet him. When I mentioned this to my friend, she said she’d never discussed an allowance for the first meeting beforehand. Yet it seems the men she meets give her ¥5,000 or ¥10,000 every time. So I tried meeting two men without bringing up an allowance, but neither of them gave me anything. I have to discuss the allowance beforehand to receive one, while my friend gets one from men without mentioning it. What accounts for this difference?
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Maybe your friend is doing papa-katsu through Patro, the club’s online service? You should try Patro too.
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ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Taken at face value, it means you shouldn’t discuss the allowance before meeting, but it’s okay to discuss it after you meet.
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A lot of women seem to want to one-up others, don’t they? If you meet through Universe, you’re guaranteed to receive ¥5,000–¥10,000 for transportation. But with apps, you know… I feel like they’re full of beasts who only think about what they can do that day. Patro transfers the amount you set yourself too, right? To the person asking: Aren’t you scared of using apps?
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出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
That friend is lying, but probably doesn’t mean any harm.
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