After we went our separate ways, he messaged me on LINE saying he wanted to meet next time for an adult relationship (intimate). When I asked about his terms, he offered an amount that was about what I expected, but I thought, “For this man, that’s a little too low…”
So I asked for ¥20,000 more than the amount he offered. After that, he stopped replying.
In this situation, would a man typically think something like:
“Ugh, she’s trying to rip me off,”
or,
“If she’s asking for this much, she must be indirectly rejecting me”?
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Among the female members I’ve met, quite a few have said that if they get a bad impression of me during dinner, they’ll raise the allowance above the amount they had originally decided on.
If it’s only a little higher, they may not feel like they’re being overcharged or rejected.
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Only you know whether you were quoted an unreasonable amount. From the papa’s perspective, he probably simply assumed it was too expensive for you if you didn’t reply.
You also made an offer knowing that this papa might not be able to accept it, right? In that sense, it may be for the best that he turned you down as expected...
I think you should just wait for an offer from a papa whose terms work for you.
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If he quoted double the amount you offered, he’s probably trying to overcharge you. But if he’s only asking for an extra ¥20,000, he hasn’t completely rejected you—he may just be comparing you with other sugar babies and weighing his options.
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