Is 10,000 yen too little for being tied up for five hours on a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) date?
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He kept holding my hand and touching me the whole time, and it made me feel really uncomfortable. After feeling that gross and having such an unpleasant time, 10,000 yen felt way too little.
Couldn’t you have said something like, “I have plans, so I’m going to leave,” partway through?
Did you just let him do whatever he wanted?
Judging by what happened, I assume this was an app-based arrangement, but you need to clearly agree on the terms of the relationship at the first meeting.
There are all kinds of people out there. If you don’t say anything, you’ll only end up being taken advantage of.
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I look at the total package—dinner, gifts, and allowance—so I can’t really judge based on the allowance alone...
But if you feel it’s too low, then it probably isn’t a good arrangement.
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Since it’s roughly two hours for 10,000 yen, you’re being exploited.
And be sure to leave feedback saying that the gross papa who touched you for free was creepy.
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You don’t have to date someone who makes you feel like you’re being held captive.
Instead, date someone you actually want to spend time with, without worrying about whether it’s five hours or how long you’ll be together!
Is it low?
I wouldn’t say it’s particularly low or high… I think it only feels low because you don’t like the person.
The right kind of date in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) can also be one where the woman takes the man around to various places, keeps him company for several hours, and visits different spots or restaurants she’s been wanting to try.
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