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Jun 14, 2024 19:41
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As the other respondents have said, if it was his suggestion, staying overnight on the first meeting isn’t normal, so you’re probably better off not doing it.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Some women are uncomfortable with an adult relationship (intimate) on the first meeting, so I doubt you’ll find many who are okay with an overnight stay.
He doesn’t sound like a very good man to me. If I were in your position, I’d say goodbye as soon as he made that suggestion.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
At Universe Club, and with Patro, the basic rule is not to stay overnight, and the first date is generally limited to around four hours.
Other apps don’t have rules like that, so please be careful.
Even when there’s a rule, some papas may ask to stay over. In that case, tell them, “I can’t stay overnight,” and prepare a reason in advance, such as having plans or your parents getting upset.
If you are willing to stay overnight, it’s best to decide beforehand how much allowance you want and tell your papa.
You should also think through situations such as the allowance for dinner only (no intimacy), and whether transportation costs are included in the allowance or paid separately. Prepare your own set of responses and handle things accordingly.
Once you vaguely agree to something, it becomes the default. In particular, papa-katsu outside this club is entirely up to you, so please be careful.
If you’re worried, you might want to start papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) here first. The staff will explain anything you don’t understand during the interview.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve never invited anyone to stay over because I don’t like staying with someone I’ve just met.
Come to think of it, there was one woman who wanted to spend the night after we were intimate for the first time, but I wasn’t comfortable with it, so I asked her to go home.
You could simply say it’s not possible because you weren’t planning to stay over and didn’t bring any skincare products or other essentials.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Normally, you wouldn’t stay overnight.
Tell him you’ll only show your bare face after you’ve met a few times.
If he’s still persistent, negotiate for 1.5 to 2 times the usual allowance, since he may expect something in the morning too.
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t stay overnight. I just say it’s not possible because I have my normal life to get on with the next day.