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Jun 13, 2024 15:43
I’d appreciate some advice.
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Yesterday, I had dinner as a first meeting with a man I met on a papa-katsu app, with an allowance included. After we parted, he messaged me on LINE asking if I’d like to go on an overnight date sometime. When I asked about his terms, he replied, “I was thinking around 40,000 yen, including 10,000 yen for transportation.”
Considering the time involved and what the date would entail, I felt that 40,000 yen was too little, so I replied, “I’m sorry, but I don’t think our terms match.” He then asked, “What are you looking for?”
Honestly, my preference would be 50,000 yen for an adult relationship (intimate), or 50,000 yen plus 10,000 yen for transportation if transportation is included. For an overnight or long date, I’d want 50,000 yen plus transportation and an additional amount.
Would it come across badly if I told him this honestly? How should I phrase it?
