My papa (a male supporter) has been saying for the past year, “Let’s go to Hokkaido during summer vacation!” I’d been looking forward to it the whole time.
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But the other day, he told me that since he’ll be taking a family trip to Hokkaido, we should go somewhere else instead.
I’d been looking forward to it for so long… Now I don’t want to go anywhere. I almost cried, but I couldn’t express how I felt in the moment and just said, “Okay.”
At this point, I don’t want to go anywhere.
Should I at least tell him how I feel?
I move around a lot for work and used to live in Sapporo, so if you’d like, I can go with you.
If you send me an offer through the club, I might be up for it if you’re my type lol.
Since you could probably go with that papa’s family anyway, maybe you just wanted to turn him down.
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Hokkaido is huge, so why not suggest an area your family doesn’t visit on their trips?
For example, if your family usually travels around Sapporo, you could suggest a trip to Hakodate instead, or perhaps the Asahikawa–Biei–Furano area or the Kushiro region.
People from outside Hokkaido often don’t realize how far apart everything is. If they’re only staying for one or two nights, they’ll probably just visit Sapporo and Otaru, take in the night view from Mount Moiwa, and head home from New Chitose Airport.
If you’re going in summer, I recommend the Asahikawa area in central Hokkaido. You could visit the classic spots, such as Asahiyama Zoo and Shikisai no Oka in Biei, and perhaps stop by the Blue Pond as well—though personally, I wouldn’t call it a must-see.
Exploring seafood restaurants around Kushiro or elsewhere in eastern Hokkaido could also be fun.
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I think you should tell him exactly how you feel. A lot of men don’t realize how often their well-intentioned or off-the-cuff comments end up hitting a woman’s land mines.
Many men would probably actually appreciate it if you told them what was on your mind.
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It sounds like you have such an enviable relationship if you’re looking forward to traveling with your papa (a male supporter).
If you’re close, maybe try telling him how you feel, even if you end up crying.
I’m getting teary-eyed too.
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