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He’s what you’d call a monthly-arrangement papa (a male supporter). When I asked him, “Why am I going if I can’t do anything because I’m on my period?” he said, “To see each other and have a meal together.”
When I asked, “Is that really enough?” he replied, “That’s the point—that’s what matters most!”
I told him I’d use my hands, but he ignored that and just said, “I love you.” That’s where our LINE conversation ended.
Of course, this man is married and has children. What do you think is going through his mind?
I understand the questioner to be saying, “It’s a hassle to spend my time traveling all the way to a distant business-trip destination just for dinner-only compensation.” Am I reading that wrong?
Why would I go all the way to a business-trip destination for an allowance just to have dinner with someone I don’t even like? I don’t get it.
Exactly. I don’t think it makes any sense either.
I may be off the mark, but this is a technique I often use called “preemptive agreement.”
I read deeply into the background and underlying intentions behind a woman’s words, then agree in advance with the point that hits closest to the mark.
Personally, I think that’s a very important part.
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Even without an adult relationship, since it’s a business trip, you’d still be staying overnight, right? Isn’t staying over pretty exhausting?
I can kind of understand the papa’s feelings. Going on a business trip with a mistress… Of course he’d want to try it. It’s a man’s dream.
I also have business trips, and when flying out of Tokyo, I sometimes see older men traveling with obviously young women—probably someone from papa-katsu or a hostess bar.
I’m jealous ^_^
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I also meet up for dinner only sometimes.
Of course, when she’s on her period, but also for birthday or moving-up celebrations, or when we feel like going out for a hearty yakiniku meal, I give her an allowance for dinner only.
That’s what being in a relationship is all about, isn’t it? ♪
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The “I really like you” line is a bit suspicious, but I also do dinner-only arrangements.
Women’s feelings may vary depending on their relationship type.
I mainly go for Type B arrangements, so I have quite a few dinner-only arrangements as well.
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Isn’t that what dating is supposed to be?
This isn’t a sex-work service. It’s a casual dating relationship.
I prefer pay-per-meeting arrangements, but when I’m on my period, our date naturally doesn’t include an adult relationship (intimate). I still pay about half the usual allowance, so we can build a really good relationship.
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