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Jun 6, 2024 07:34
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I live in a rural area, and it costs me ¥20,000 just to get to the city. It would be difficult if that came out of my allowance...
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I’m not sure how you’re registered, but depending on where you live, a date in Tokyo may be arranged as a long-distance date.
In that case, you would need to pay the expenses upfront, but the male supporter would cover the transportation costs incurred that day.
Of course, this applies when the arrangement is made through the club. From the second meeting onward, you would need to negotiate the terms directly.
To make sure you can participate comfortably, it may be best to consult the club staff first.
I hope this is helpful.
Takeaki Dan
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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If you live far away and want your transportation costs covered, some women mention it in their profiles. You can also tell the staff during your interview and ask them to include it in your profile.
From the man’s perspective, though, it simply means paying more overall, so it’s no different from choosing someone with a higher allowance. Unless your appearance or what you offer makes it worthwhile, you may not receive offers or ongoing arrangements.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you don’t say anything, transportation costs may be considered included.
If you’re coming from far away, I don’t think they’ll cover transportation separately unless you ask specifically.
横断歩道
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
- Allowance 5, transportation expenses 2
- Allowance 8, transportation expenses 0
Which is better?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
People’s understanding of things naturally differs, so the two people involved need to make sure they’re on the same page.
That applies not only to dating clubs but to relationships in general.
In short, this is something you should ask the person involved—not a third party. Even if we think they’re separate, the man you’re seeing may consider them part of the same arrangement.
システムエンジニアの会員
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From what I’ve seen, most people mention that they’re coming from far away and ask for consideration regarding transportation costs.
I don’t know how much is stated in your profile, but my understanding is that if you’re traveling from far away, the actual transportation expenses are covered separately from the allowance if the relationship develops.
If this isn’t mentioned in your profile, I think you should bring it up with the staff when you receive an offer.