When do you feel that a woman you’re seeing has started cutting corners because she’s gotten used to the arrangement, compared with when you first started making offers?

It depends on the person. If she’s someone I wouldn’t mind parting ways with, I’ll say things like, “Haven’t you been cutting corners lately?” or “Isn’t our time getting shorter?” In fact, I’ve said that to a monthly partner before, and she improved afterward. But when it’s someone I don’t want to lose, there’s actually one like that among my Fuu monthly partners. Apparently, she really values time efficiency. So we don’t even have dinner—we meet at the hotel and part ways there. But the adult relationship is incredibly good, she’s obedient in bed, and she’s so tight it feels like I could finish right away. I imagine other papas are probably giving her a higher allowance, though. I make sure to shower before our meeting time and wait for her, doing my part to save even more time lol. She’s cute and has a great figure, so I’m sure she gets plenty of offers and can choose from as many papas as she wants. I think things have continued with Fuu because we make efficient use of our time. Recently, it seems like she’s finally been able to get there with me, which makes it twice as pleasurable and exciting lol. I have another partner for cuddling and another for having fun over dinner and drinks, so Fuu is perfectly fine as she is lol. That’s one way of looking at it. If you adapt to the other person, you can enjoy things more and make the arrangement last longer. And if you can’t put up with it anymore, you can simply part ways, make offers to other women, and find someone else you click with.

That way of thinking is off. It’s simply that she doesn’t enjoy spending time with youーーー. No matter how many women you make offers to, nothing will change unless you look at yourself as the cause of the problem… For a man who’s willing to meet a woman and give her an allowance, there are already tremendous benefits and advantages. Instead of thinking that giving her money entitles you to expect something from her, you should be happy to focus on making her feel comfortable. Her response will change, and since she’s receiving an allowance too, you can make her feel that there’s no more enjoyable way to spend her time. > Lately, the meetings have been shortened to well under four hours. First, you need to have the generosity and composure to be happy about that, because it benefits her. If you do, she’ll probably stop worrying about the time and may even try to make you happy in return. Whether you spend a short time or a long time together, it should feel like the time passes in an instant when you’re together…

If it clearly feels like he’s not putting in any effort, it may be better to move on. There is a setup fee, but one advantage for men is being able to meet new women one after another.

At first, I usually suggest the date plan myself, but once we get more comfortable, I’ll plan it together with her. Rather than limiting the date to a hotel and a meal, why not include other activities too? It can help save time. And when she’s on her period, for example, having a date without a hotel means you can devote all the time to other activities, which opens up a much wider range of possibilities. (I decide the allowance based on what we do.) That said, if I feel she’s obviously putting in minimal effort, I take that as a sign to move on and start looking for someone else...