Tips May 20, 2024 17:56

I can’t make my schedule work with my long-term papa. I recently started working night shifts, but he always suggests meeting on weekday mornings or around noon because it’s easier for him to leave the house then. That means I have to go straight from work without sleeping, and honestly, it’s physically exhausting. I don’t think I can keep this up.

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Don’t you think there are very few PJ girls who can meet on weekday mornings? When a papa and a PJ can’t make their schedules work, how do you usually handle it?
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I feel like having incompatible schedules can also be a sign that the chemistry just isn’t there. At that point, I think there’s a good chance you’ll naturally drift apart. You might be better off looking for someone whose schedule works with yours behind the scenes.
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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Why not try getting 2–3 hours of deep sleep right after your night shift? If it helps you feel less stressed and makes up for some of your sleep deprivation, you can keep doing it. Ideally, I’d recommend crashing right after being intimate.
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If you don’t want to end things with your papa (male supporter), you’ll have to put up with going on dates after night shifts. But he can tell that you’re struggling, so I think you’ll probably part ways soon. Even your papa wouldn’t want you showing up for a date when you’re forcing yourself. Why not try looking for a new papa?
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Only students can go straight to their part-time job after pulling an all-nighter. Once you start working full-time, I think it gets pretty tough.
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People who work in the service industry usually have weekdays off, so I don’t think they’re that uncommon. For early-morning golf in the summer, we leave at 4 or 5 a.m., but I imagine only a few PJs can accommodate that. If our terms don’t match, I’ll look for someone who can.
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関西在住で多趣味です。 最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。 スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
If you’re showing up reluctantly after pulling an all-nighter, the man will probably stop inviting you sooner or later.
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You naturally drift apart from women whose schedules don’t align with yours.
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