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You’re free to message me on LINE every day, but to be honest, it’s exhausting.
Isn’t this supposed to be a place for carefully selected, well-mannered adults to meet?
You could tell your papa (a male supporter):
“I’ll reply on LINE, and then you’ll start expecting it, so please don’t worry if I leave your messages unread. I don’t check LINE very often.”
I find LINE a hassle, so I hardly ever use it except to confirm arrangements.
If you’re attractive and have other offers, say goodbye to this demanding papa and wait for the next one.
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I don’t think this is something you can generalize very well.
If you had to generalize, the only right answer would be: “It depends on the person.”
There are plenty of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) couples who message each other every day. On the other hand, some people in these arrangements only use LINE to coordinate schedules.
What’s more, someone who normally doesn’t message every day may start doing so depending on who they’re with.
Personally, I’m not bothered by either being left on read or having my message unread. But some people get angry and consider even one day of being left on read bad manners, or sulk and think they’ve been rejected.
In other words, it’s a stretch to lump messaging frequency under “manners.”
Besides, many people make too big a deal out of what is really just a mismatch between their own personal idea of manners and the other person’s.
The manners you believe in can be considered bad manners depending on the setting, position, or culture. That’s all they are.
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There are people of both genders who are active in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) without being particularly dissatisfied.
I haven’t heard the name Kanae Kijima in a long time. Looking her up, it seems her sentence still hasn’t been carried out.
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A guy who messages you every day and is genuinely serious probably doesn’t have any other women in his life.
If you play your cards right and turn it into money, you might be able to get as much out of him as Riri-chan or Kanae Kijima did.
A man who isn’t fixated on you has plenty of other women.
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Good luck promoting your YouTube videos.
Wouldn’t ignoring the messages keep you from getting tired of replying on LINE every day?
If the effort involved—including replying on LINE—is balanced by the allowance and so on, then reply. If it isn’t, you could say you’d rather talk things over when you meet and simply stop replying.
If that causes the relationship to end, all you can do is conclude that it was a transaction requiring too much effort for too little compensation—and that it’s a good thing you were able to end it.
I don’t message every day either.
Since this is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’ve made offers to several women. Perhaps because they’ve run out of money, they’re more often the ones contacting me, with me replying.
I’ve never encountered a woman making an effort to increase contact by messaging every day as a form of salesmanship. They’re all the type who only contact you when they need something—“they only get in touch when they’re in trouble.”
I get the feeling that it’s just the unlucky women who got caught by some monster papa who messages them every day, going around complaining about it.
If they can’t cut ties with such a papa, maybe it simply comes down to their lack of decisiveness or poor judgment in choosing people—and their inability to find a good papa.
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I don’t want to message the woman I’m dating on LINE every day.
I find it bothersome because I overthink my replies and can’t be bothered.
But thinking back 30 years, I used to talk to my girlfriend on the phone every day.
These days, I wonder what we even found to talk about so much…
Wouldn’t you message your boyfriend every day?
That’s how it feels to a deluded older man.
Besides, by getting into a relationship with him, you might be able to get him emotionally attached—in other words, receive a generous allowance.
Someone like me, who understands how things work, doesn’t message women on LINE and doesn’t get emotionally entangled either.
If you want a generous allowance but aren’t willing to do any of the “sales” work, I don’t think papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is right for you.
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