Could you tell me about the worst thing a PJ or P has ever done to you?

Is this what you’d call being treated badly…? From his perspective, it might not have been intentional. This happened when I re-registered in February. He asked me out for a letter date right away and seemed to really like me. “I want you to look only at me.” “I want you to leave the site after one month.” “Please hide your profile right away.” He really wanted to keep me all to himself, and his daily LINE messages were intense. But then, on our second date, he suddenly said he felt guilty, wished me happiness, and said goodbye. I guess we just weren’t meant to be. From now on, I’m going to call people like that “comet papas”—they disappear in an instant. Currently looking for a steady papa. (Huh?)

In my case, after booking a restaurant through a letter date and notifying him, I received this message: “Thank you for making the restaurant reservation. I’m looking forward to seeing you that day!!” A few days later, I was suddenly blocked. Since then, considering the risks of letter dates, I’ve switched to regular offers only. By the way, you can check whether someone has blocked you on LINE by trying to send them several stickers they definitely don’t have. If you haven’t been blocked: “You don’t have enough coins. Would you like to purchase more?” If you’ve been blocked: “This sticker cannot be sent as a gift.” Even if they actually own the sticker, it will still say that it can’t be sent, so if you try several stickers they probably don’t have and none of them can be sent, they’ve almost certainly blocked you. When trying this, make sure you don’t have any coins. Otherwise, you might accidentally send the sticker—and suddenly receiving some obscure sticker could make them suspect you were checking whether they blocked you, potentially damaging the relationship.

My papa (a male supporter) was two years younger than me and liked fuller-figured women. I worked hard at the gym because I wanted to tone up, but perhaps he didn’t like it—his attitude suddenly changed. Apparently, he still wanted to see me even if I did nothing… I eventually lost patience and said goodbye myself. It was an unhealthy experience. Questioner, how did you know he blocked you on LINE? Because your messages stayed unread?