Today, after dinner, we went to a love hotel, and I’ve just gotten home.
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At the hotel, we kissed, the man caressed my entire body, drank my vaginal fluids, and then we had intercourse with a condom.
There’s something I’m concerned about, so I’d like to ask a question.
When the man was getting changed, I happened to notice what looked like many tiny flesh-colored bumps around his anus—something resembling the florets of broccoli or cauliflower.
Questions:
① If anyone knows what this might be, could you please tell me? Could it be some kind of anal condition?
② Should I tell him that I noticed the tiny broccoli- or cauliflower-like bumps around his anus while he was changing, and that he might want to see a proctologist? Or would it be better not to mention it?
③ Why do bumps like that develop? Could it be because his physical strength or immunity is low?
This was the first time I had ever seen anything like it. I’m hoping it isn’t a sexually transmitted infection, but I can’t stop worrying about it.
I’d really appreciate your answers.
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I’m an old country guy who left the dating club last year. I have no specialized medical knowledge, and I didn’t leave because I contracted an STI or anything like that...
1. I saw what looked like tiny, bead-like bumps, similar to the florets on broccoli or cauliflower.
I’m not sure whether it’s an illness, but it certainly isn’t normal around the anus（笑）.
2. You should tell them.
You should inform both the person involved and the club. If it is an STI, there’s a high risk of passing it on, so the club would probably want the person to see a doctor and, depending on the situation, only resume activities after obtaining proof that treatment has been completed.
3. I do think there’s some connection.
The details will probably be explained by the specialist who examines them.
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Are you really a woman?
It sounds like an STI.
Make it a one-time thing and say goodbye. If you’re not going to see her again, at least tell her, “I think the bumps on your buttocks may be an STI, so please get checked as soon as possible.”
You must have come into contact with it during the encounter as well, so keep an eye out for a while—check yourself in the mirror, for example.
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1. Could it be genital warts, an STI?
I think you should avoid seeing him until the treatment is finished.
If you touched the affected area with your mucous membranes, you may have been infected. If it was only contact with your fingers and you used a condom, you’re probably fine.
2. You should see a dermatologist or a urologist.
I can’t believe a guy would just leave a wart like that untreated. You absolutely need to tell him.
3. It’s HPV—the virus the cervical cancer vaccine protects against. Both men and women should get the vaccine.
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