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Jan 7, 2024 23:50
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The profile form had various sections to fill out, such as occupation and hobbies. One of them asked whether I drink alcohol. I don’t drink—not because I choose not to, but because I physically can’t. Alcohol doesn’t agree with me; my face gets flushed and I end up throwing up.
When dining together, do male members tend to offer to meet women who can drink alcohol rather than women who can’t, since they might enjoy the occasion more?
Are there also male members whose bodies don’t tolerate alcohol?
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しろうさ
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Age: 50s
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I think a lot of men like to have a drink with their meals, and I’m no exception. Since there may be plans afterward, I usually limit myself to one glass of wine or beer.
If my companion doesn’t drink at all, I either don’t drink or just have a sparkling water, but I do worry that even a little alcohol on my breath might be rude. On the other hand, if she’s comfortable with it, I don’t see a problem.
So, to get to my point: just because you can’t drink, that wouldn’t stop me from making an offer.
I was a little put off, though, when we got to the hotel and she said, “I’m going to have a drink,” grabbed a can of Chu-Hi from the fridge, and immediately started downing it...
Other
It’s better if you can drink, but there’s a limit—finishing a whole bottle of wine wouldn’t exactly be very refined.
It’s fine if you can only drink a little, but if even a small amount makes you feel unwell, you should say that you don’t drink. If you force yourself and end up feeling sick, the first meeting may end with just dinner, and you might not get invited again.
There’s no need to push yourself just to get offers. Women in their 30s are very popular, so write a profile that’s honest about what you’re comfortable with.
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Age: 50s
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It’s better to be honest about how your body reacts.
I get sleepy when I drink, so I don’t like alcohol. I have a low tolerance and only drink once every two months.
I do like non-alcoholic beer, though—there are men like me out there too.
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Some people simply don’t drink alcohol. I can’t drink either because of a medical condition.
That said, I’m sure there are also people who enjoy dining together with drinks.
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Age: 50s
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Whether a woman can drink alcohol is one of the factors I consider when making an offer.
That said, one of the women I’m currently seeing doesn’t drink at all.
She’s beautiful, has a great figure, responds well during intimacy, and I’m perfectly satisfied with things as they are.
In other words, like most men, I don’t consider whether someone drinks to be the top priority.
That said, it would be a different story if you’re an A-type.
You probably won’t receive offers from men who are specifically looking for someone who can drink with them over a meal.
Other
I don’t really care whether someone can drink when I make an offer. We’re not going to drink that much with dinner anyway, since an adult relationship (intimate) is waiting afterward. As long as we can have a good conversation, that’s enough for me.
I just looked it up, and apparently about 5% of Japanese people are completely unable to drink alcohol.
Five percent is also roughly the proportion of gay men and people with color vision deficiencies—truly a magic number.
Apparently, about 5% of women in their twenties work in the adult entertainment industry as well.
Incidentally, when a woman is told, “Let me put just the tip in,” it apparently means inserting roughly 5% of the penis’s total length.
At a strip show, up to around 5% is “Just a little,” while anything over 10% becomes, “Well, aren’t you a naughty one?”
Thank you for listening.
Taro
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
When it comes to alcohol, it’s probably better if you can drink rather than not.
Personally, I’ve moved on from drinking and rarely drink these days, so I don’t care at all whether a woman drinks.