Tips Jan 1, 2024 17:00

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The person I’m currently seeing told me he’s too busy to meet, so we’ve been seeing each other less often. He also only replies when I message him first, which makes me wonder if he’s thinking about ending things. I’d like to continue seeing him, but are there any signs that can help me tell whether he’s genuinely busy or considering a breakup? When a man from a dating club is thinking about ending things with his partner, how does he usually act?
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関西在住で多趣味です。 最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。 スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
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Since you’re talking about a man from a dating club, let’s think of it in terms of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). If it’s a monthly arrangement, then there can be a cancellation. If it’s pay-per-meeting, then either you meet and receive your allowance, or you don’t meet and therefore don’t receive anything. That’s all there is to it. Since it isn’t a romantic relationship, I don’t think there’s really a breakup. He simply isn’t meeting you, so there’s no opportunity for you to provide the agreed-upon service, and no allowance is generated. In other words, his need for the service being offered has simply decreased, including the fact that you’ve become a lower priority. With papa-katsu, the man may not have a clear-cut “breakup” either. He may prioritize another woman because she’s a better fit, or prioritize work and his personal life because he’s busy. If you become a higher priority again over time, he may reach out to you. There’s no benefit to the man in formally cutting ties with you. In my case, when someone becomes a lower priority, I put off replying to their messages as well. If I’ve decided I’ll never meet them again and even messaging feels like a hassle, I might cut ties completely. If you’re still connected on LINE, why not ask him directly?
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