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Dec 19, 2023 05:32
Have you ever had sex with someone who had hemorrhoids or an anal skin tag?
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I’m considering registering with a dating club and would really appreciate your opinions.
This is embarrassing to admit, but I think I have a hemorrhoid or possibly an anal skin tag. It doesn’t hurt and feels soft and squishy. I’d like to have it treated, but I can’t afford the treatment, and since it hasn’t caused any problems in my daily life, I left it alone for years. Before I knew it, it had grown to about the size of a red bean. It’s become a complex for me, and because I hate the thought of someone seeing it, I’ve never had sex.
If I meet someone I really like through the club, I’m prepared to let them see it when things progress that far, as long as they don’t mind. But I’m afraid they’ll be put off.
From a man’s perspective, would seeing a growth around a woman’s anus during sex be a turn-off…?
As a last resort, I’m even considering covering my anus with something like a modesty patch when I undress.
If I should tell the other person in advance, when would be the best time?
Should I mention it during the interview as well?
Sorry for the difficult-to-read post. I’d appreciate your advice.
