I may have had sex with a man who has genital herpes. One of the men I’ve been seeing had symptoms that looked like genital herpes. When I asked what had happened, he said he’d pinched it, so I didn’t think much of it at the time and ended up having sex with him.
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I sometimes meet men through an escort dating club whose genitals are swollen or look like this. When they say things like it’s just their natural constitution, I feel like I can’t exactly stop at the last minute, so I go through with it. Should I refuse if I suspect something is wrong? I’d appreciate hearing what others do and any advice on what I should do.
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You’re worried, aren’t you? And understandably so.
Herpes can be contracted even without having sex, so there may not be much you can do to prevent it. It probably isn’t easy to tell it apart from genital warts or harmless bumps, either.
These days, some men even get hyaluronic acid or similar injections to enlarge the glans, so even a penis expert might have trouble making a diagnosis!
That said, the same risk exists if you have a boyfriend who tends to cheat. Realistically, wouldn’t it make sense to get regular STI screenings yourself and stay on top of your sexual health?
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There’s a saying: “Tap the stone bridge before crossing it.”
Please take every possible precaution and always put your safety first in your arrangements. After all, you’re young and have your whole lives ahead of you. Take good care of yourselves.
As the old saying goes, “A wise person stays away from danger.”
From now on, be sure to turn them down.
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When I visited a sex venue in a certain country, the woman working there turned on a desk lamp before we got started and began closely examining my penis. I almost discovered a new fetish.
I passed the inspection and we went on to the fun, but I assume that visual penis check was to look for genital warts or herpes.
I think you should do a visual inspection under a desk lamp too, and refuse if anything looks suspicious.
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