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Dec 7, 2023 15:02
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Some women manage to keep it all under the radar, while others probably stick with just one papa if he pays well.
If she’s receiving a monthly allowance and he buys or rents her an apartment, introduces her to job opportunities, invests in her business, or even helps her open a shop, wouldn’t she naturally focus on just one papa?
Other
A very generous monthly papa will often get possessive, but he doesn’t see it as possessiveness himself.
He thinks you’re in a relationship and says that because he trusts you, he won’t act petty or suspicious.
I can understand that to a certain extent, but when the time you spend together—and the number of messages and calls—increases, I can’t help but feel like that’s still a form of possessiveness.
Other
The first time I became someone’s mistress, he rented me an apartment and gave me a monthly allowance. Naturally, he told me I wasn’t allowed to see anyone else.
There was another matter where that papa had the private investigator looking into me stop the investigation. I say “probably” because he was the one who told me I was being investigated, and he was also the one who said he’d had it stopped. But he knew everything I was doing.
Later, my cheating was discovered and we broke things off. I suspect he either had someone connected to that matter look into me or received information from them, though I haven’t confirmed it.
No other partner has ever found out about me seeing multiple people or cheating.
Basically, I’m saying that if someone seriously investigates, they’ll find out right away—but not many people would go that far, I think.
Marika
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I suppose so. There’s really nothing else to say.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You're right—most of the time, it's probably just nonsense. I think you can simply ignore it.
People also talk about being made to carry a GPS, but even then, if someone is paying ¥300,000 a month, they could easily find someone willing to carry it around for them as a side job.