I’ve been reading the Q&A and am stunned by things like “No bareback,” “within four hours,” and “no second round”... Is this really what papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is like these days? It sounds just like a delivery health service. What’s the benefit of being a mistress?

I’m Saito, a columnist♪ I don’t know how long you’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but allowances used to be much higher. That was the going rate. The women were also on a higher level back then. There weren’t many “ordinary” women. I think it’s those ordinary women who have brought the going rate down. As more men started bringing up those lower rates, I think all kinds of women—and all kinds of men—began entering the scene. “No unprotected sex” → I don’t just ignore that—I always finish inside. “Within four hours” → Please consider my hourly rate. I can’t spend four hours with someone. “No second round” → That’s completely unnecessary. That’s just my personal style; there are all kinds of men and women. I believe a dating club is where you meet women of a caliber you wouldn’t be able to meet through a regular escort service. There’s definitely someone who will be a good match for you, so please don’t give up—keep looking.

Maezawa here with an answer. I’m guessing the questioner dislikes the aspects of delivery health services such as “no unprotected sex,” paying by the hour, and no second round—or an additional charge for one—and is looking for an alternative. If that’s the case, I don’t think an escort club is right for you, so you’d be better off looking elsewhere. I’m sure you can find the kind of adult entertainment you’re looking for if you search. Escort clubs are, if anything, places where people gather to enjoy somewhat different aspects of dating.