Why think about unnecessary things when you have such a wonderful woman right in front of you?
Some people can’t fully enjoy a 100% happy moment because they start thinking about unpleasant things during an entertaining movie or worrying about their phone while eating a delicious meal. I feel sorry for them—they’re only shortchanging themselves in life.
There’s a famous example involving a glass half full of water: some people focus on the half that remains, while others think about the half that’s gone. Which person is happier?
Getting back to your question: you have a dating partner you see every week.
“While she’s on a date with me, this wonderful woman is mine alone ♡”
“When she isn’t on a date with me, I wonder if she’s seeing another man.”
Which way of thinking makes you happier?
Whether it’s the water in the glass or how you think about dating, I believe the first person leads an optimistic, happy life, while the second leads a pessimistic, unhappy one. Because even if you think about what your partner is doing when she isn’t with you in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), one thing doesn’t change: your dates with her are happy and enjoyable.
Whether she sees several men every week, or hardly any at all?
I couldn’t care less.
I just want to live in the moment and focus on genuinely enjoying what’s right in front of me.
It’s me
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For your own peace of mind, it’s better not to assume that a young, beautiful woman is seeing only you. She’s obviously popular with other people too.
Marika
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I think there are quite a few.
Students and women without regular jobs have plenty of free time. If they’re getting a reasonable number of offers and don’t find these arrangements burdensome, they may be meeting several men every week.
Even among women with regular jobs, it’s not unusual to have five or six papa (male supporters). Even if they all have monthly arrangements, if you’re meeting her every week, that’s already two men a week when you include you and one other.
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