The other day, I met a man through a papa-katsu app.

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He seemed to like me and said, “If you’re okay with me, would you like to meet again?” So we exchanged LINE IDs. Then he looked puzzled and said, “Hmm?? Have we met before?” I was confused too, but when I checked his LINE chat, I realized we had met once two years ago. (I had lost my phone data, so I didn’t have the record anymore.) At the time, we had dinner with an allowance. I messaged him, “Thank you for dinner today,” he replied, and then I sent, “Good night.” The conversation ended with him reading it and not replying. Since we both thought it was our first time meeting, I asked things like, “Where did we meet last time?” and gradually remembered. But after I sent “Good night,” he never contacted me again. A few days later, he blocked me on LINE and deleted his account on the app. I assumed he just didn’t like me. So after we parted this time, I thought, just like last time, that there probably wouldn’t be a next meeting. But then he invited me to dinner again on LINE, and we’ve already set a date. My question is: Does this mean he blocked me after our previous meeting because he didn’t like me? Why would he invite me out again now?

Answer 1

No matter how disliked you may have been in the past, if they like you now, that’s all that matters. Unless they actually said so, asking, “Did you dislike me?” is just assuming things. You can’t change the past, but you can change the future. Your date is set, so focus all your energy on that. Have a great time! It’s me.

Answer 2

Last time, it meant they didn’t feel like meeting a second time—not even enough to reply. Also, this is someone who is still active on the app two years later, and I think the same could be said about you, too. That said, you never know what might happen between a man and a woman. Miracles can happen. It may be worth considering that meeting this second time could turn into something special. Since you’ve managed to meet twice, I’d say there must be some kind of connection between you.

Answer 3

Since he’s inviting you at this point, if he isn’t a papa (a male supporter) you feel instinctively uncomfortable with, why not see how things go without overthinking it? There’s no way to know the reason. My guess is that he may have been making offers to several women at once, and chose someone else after a woman he thought was a better match than you said yes. But it’s surprising that both you and the papa forgot meeting each other. Are you both meeting so many people that you can’t remember them all? I certainly wouldn’t forget, though...

Answer 4

Maybe he just happened to feel satisfied during the time between making plans on the app and actually meeting up. Marika

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