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Sep 12, 2023 17:04
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it’s because they need the money—or simply want it.
There are probably quite a few men here who also want to date multiple people.
As long as everyone follows the rules, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having multiple relationships.
Other
Why do women want to re-register or date multiple men?
Questioner, you really don’t understand…
It’s not that they’re dating multiple men—they’re receiving money from multiple men. It’s not love; it’s money.
If you offer a sufficient allowance, they won’t date multiple men.
There are also a few women who are looking for love, so offer to those women.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It all comes down to the fact that there’s no guarantee the arrangement will continue.
Women generally want a stable allowance.
Even though both sides are in the same boat, this is a world where the other person can suddenly cut things off, so I think it’s only natural to think about ways to hedge your risks.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Thank you for your question. I’ll answer as Maezawa as well.
I think that’s simply human nature.
You phrased it as “women,” but I think the same statement works if you replace it with “men.”
Why do men want to re-register or date multiple women?
That’s a perfectly understandable question.
When you look at it that way, perhaps it isn’t about men or women specifically—maybe it’s simply human nature.
Of course, outside of dating clubs, people may more often choose to be with just one partner. But perhaps that’s only because we’re bound by the moral standards we’ve created ourselves. Without those restrictions, maybe this is simply what human beings are like.
Other
Because they’re lacking in various ways.
It’s also mistaken to think that a generous allowance makes up for everything.
You’re looking for a partner who requires as little compromise as possible in different respects.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Basically, it all comes down to money. Some do it as a safety net in case they get dropped, while others dream of finding someone more generous. There are all kinds of reasons.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Everyone’s situation, motives, and circumstances are different, so I don’t think you can generalize about “women.”
As a broad generalization, women probably re-register because they’re looking for a new partner, while those seeking multiple partners may be keeping backups.
That said, it seems many women will focus on just one partner if they meet a man who can see them at times and at a pace that works for them, seems unlikely to suddenly end the relationship, offers an allowance they feel is fair, and is reasonably enjoyable to spend time with.